my friend really fancies this guy that I know and she wants to ask him out, the only problem is that he has told me that she really gets on his nerves and I don't no what to say to my friend that won't upset her. I have tried telling her that she can do better but she wont listen
2006-11-22 05:28:46 · 10 answers · asked by popcorn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In order to preserve your friendship I think it's best to keep your friend in the dark and just let him turn her down. If you tell her she'll associate the negative feelings with you, not him. Just be there for her when she gets turned down - that's all you can do. Good luck :)
2006-11-22 05:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've done what you can to prepare your friend for the eventual let down if she follows through and asks the guy out. Having done that, now is the time to keep quiet and let her make her own mistakes even if they may be painful. If you continue to try to dissuade her from asking the guy out, she may start to think YOU are interested in him and that could affect your friendship if she is not a mature friend. What you can do now is be there for your friend if she does ask the guy out and is turned down. She will need a shoulder to cry on.
2006-11-22 13:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by stevijan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her what you know. I you are a true friend, you will not let her make a fool of herself by asking him out and getting rejected. She may even find out that you knew and then feel she can't tust you.
2006-11-22 13:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lilly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So let her live her own life, and ask him out. He'll say no and that'll be the end of it.
2006-11-22 13:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight with her. All your doing is allowing her to waste her time. Tell her you have talked to him and he said he wasnt interested.
2006-11-22 13:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, "He won't like you unless you're a little less annoying/mean/hyper/stalkerish." or whatever she does to annoy him.
2006-11-22 13:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you know someone who has know him... and explain he is a real jerk and he doesn't deserve your friend.
2006-11-22 13:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her strait up.
Shel'' appriciate your honesty, & won't make a fool of herself
2006-11-22 13:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by jsav209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
step back and leave it alone.. let the two of them work it out... if she wants to ask him out let her... if he does not want to go, then it is for HIM to refuse her.... stay out of it !!!! God bless
2006-11-22 13:34:41 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know
2006-11-22 13:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by francia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋