My wife gets turned on by me noticing (not STARING, just noticing) other hot women. She loves to hear me tell her what I would love to do to them. Then I take her home/somewhere and do it to her. She loves it.
If there is some hot girl and I DON'T say anything she asks me if I see her. Asks me what I like. Asks me what I would do....and then jumps me. Fact is I was uncomfortable with it for some time, as I thought it would make her jealous - but no. It gets her all hot.
I have never strayed in our marriage - don't get me wrong. But are there any other women our there who are like this?
2006-11-22 05:25:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I say...good for you. You and your wife are comfortable in your marriage, and are obviously honest. If you two are getting the benefits, then I see no problem. I point out hot chicks to my hubby too, we just don't play on it though. Maybe she feels it better that you do this, without actually cheating on her, or her cheating on you. Whatever you guys feel comfortable with, go with it. :)
2006-11-22 05:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And this is a problem? Hmmmmm.
Most wives would be mad. Yours gets turned on and wants you.
You poor guy.
There is never an explanation for any of us as to what turns us on and what doesn't. Somehow the fact you notice and then make love to her is a turn on. Perhaps a fetish.
Has she ever indicated in any way she may like a threesome?
If she only wants you to herself.....well I would just suffer through.
Sometime there are things we just have to put up with in marriage. This burden is yours....try to make the best of it while it lasts.
2006-11-22 05:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probably not turned on by you noticing them, but by what you say you want to do to them. i don't know of any women who likes her husband to look at other women in a sexual way. ask your wife if its you looking or what your saying thats doing it for her. if it turns out to actually be the fact of you talking about it, then thats easy enough to do without any harm being done to your relationship
2006-11-22 05:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by Queen B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 09:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol she sounds like she might be curious in that area. why dont you try asking her what about it makes her so hot... you could find yourself in the middle of a threesome at some point. lol good luck
and yes there are plenty of women out there like that.
2006-11-22 05:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't get mad i enjoy it, thats because i am bisexual and it's nothing like a threesome .talk it over with your wife she may be all for it ...word of caution do not try with any of her friends find a female who is dwn for the experience but has no real connection to either one of you ....good luck
2006-11-22 10:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by kinya p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not, but my husband is. Everyone has different ideas about what gets them going. So long as its something you both enjoy, nothing else matters.
2006-11-22 05:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife gets mad at me for looking. I think most women would. Your wife is strange.
2006-11-22 05:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not one of those types. If he doesn't notice hot chicks It would worry me. It doesn't turn me on, but it doesn't bother me if he notices.
2006-11-24 04:51:19 · answer #9 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's a little bi-curious.. nothing wrong with you both enjoying each other as long as no one gets hurt..
2006-11-22 05:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋