2006-11-22 05:18:28 · 17 answers · asked by danielle a 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Preacher-Your name fits quite well. Anyhow, I said bicurious which means i've never been with a woman, even kissed a woman in my life. How is that cheating. Only recently have I seriously considered acting on this. Before, I thought it was a phase.
2006-11-22 05:29:21 · update #1
I think bicurious is a fair term. I may not like it at all once I actually do it. Some people have said that to me.
2006-11-22 05:30:21 · update #2
By offering him an open chance to explore your Bi side with you, such as a threesome or for him to watch. Otherwise you are probably going to lose him.
2006-11-22 05:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by I_have_no_heart 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Okay, first of all, there is no such thing in the bi world as "bicurious". It screams newbie. Either you like girls or you don't.
Now to your fiance: First ask him what he thinks about bisexual females. If he gives you a bigoted answer, then don't tell him. You're better off.
If you get a favorable reaction and he seems open-minded, tell him about your attraction to other women; that you're bi. If he is open-minded, he will still love you the way you are and accept you the way you are.
One thing: if he mentions having a threesome with you and your "girlfriend", that is a bad reaction. You're heading into a bad situation and you should get out of the relationship. Seriously.
One more thing: Pay no attention to what "preacher" said. He is not a real Christian. Jesus loves bis and homosexuals just as He loves ALL of His children. "Preacher" is speaking from HIS own fear and prejudice; not Jesus' word.
2006-11-22 05:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He'll probably be TOTALLY supportive if you let HIM join in...but totally against it if you DON'T! Good luck!
BTW, I am TOTALLY against straight guys using fantasies of bi or lesbian lovers to get off! HMPH! It's bad enough they've cornered the porn industry!. Seriously...if your fiance can't support a little experimentation, then he's a stiff! And, as we ALLL know, most men have had at least one homosexual experience! Ask him...
And to the NEWBIE (to sex anyway), Nancy B (below): Does the name DAVID BOWIE ring a bell?! Sheesh. Wake up and smell ...okay...don't smell it, just watch some documentaries!...the Sexual Revolution! As Austin Powers
said, "Now we've got Freedom AND Responsibility...which is a very Grooovy thing"!.
2006-11-22 05:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by SieglindeDieNibelunge 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why? He might love the idea of being in bed with 2 women!
Find out in general his feelings about those kinds of things. Find a show or movie or news item about women kissing or bi-curious, or lesbians or whatever and see his reaction, then you'll have an idea on whether he is open to it or not.
2006-11-22 05:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a bisexual woman that prefers women. To the pplk that deny bicuriousity...it does exist. A woman can be curious about acting on her desires for the same sex without doing it. Bisexual means that you have already acted out the sex. I know because I am in a gay straight alliance organization and I know all of the terms. So ignore them, hon. From me to you, you should just keep it to yourself. Its your personal business. DFepending on whether he is a straight and narrow Christian I would definitely keep it to myself. You own your body and your mind...why let some man scare you into submission? You should not be afraid to tell him because you are your own person. The problem with men these days is that they expect threesomes and all that bs. I say what he doesnt know wont kill him. )0(
2006-11-22 06:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do have faith in me,your mom experience embarrassed as U do.only attempt faux no longer something ensue.existence might desire to pass on,dude! i'm have been caught by mom observed me masturbate on the mattress after i'm got here out from the bathing room.i'm only like U forgot to fasten the door lock then my mom only walk in without knocking the door.It incredibly embarrassing mutually as my mom seeing me in completely bare and masturbate on the mattress.
2016-10-04 06:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having open communication is important for any relationship. You might want to "hint" him about bringing a third person into the picture, but you feel more comfortable with another girl. Just let thinks work out by themselves. Besides.....it's every man's fantasy to have sex with two girls. I actually saw a good comedy movie about it. You should check it out.
http://www.thesexmonster.com
2006-11-22 06:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by kahloguy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK. That's a new one to me. What in the world does "bicurious" mean?
2006-11-22 05:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared for the worse. While the stereotype is men love lesbians, its not so. Especially if it requires you sleeping with other people.
That said, take a deep breath and do it. He may totally support you or not but you need to be honest with yourself and future partners.
Goodluck.
2006-11-22 05:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should be able to be honest with especially if you plan on spending thte rest of your life with him.
I'd toy with the Idea while you all are having sex and see if he is in to the idea,ya know test the waters,maybe talk dirty to him about it to see how he feels....
Good luck!
2006-11-22 05:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by free_style_forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth. Respect him enough to let him choose if he wants to be with someone of that lifestyle. You're only scared because you don't want to lose him, but if you want both of you to be happy you'll be honest with him.
2006-11-22 05:24:03 · answer #11 · answered by crystalonyx3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋