My friend is also my ex's sister, which has made it more difficult to be friends. But, I have, many times, done everything I could to help her and be a good friend.It seems like every time I turn around she stabs me in the back with her family. I just wanted to know what finally does it for you?
2006-11-22 04:18:48 · 31 answers · asked by bown 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
She doesn't seem like a true friend. If she stabbed you in the back, walk away. Life is too short to hold on to things that won't hold back.
2006-11-22 04:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point, I would call it quits with her, being that she's the sister of your ex boyfriend, she probably doesn't feel any need to be a true friend to you anymore, considering you and her brother, are no longer an item. It was all good, when you were still with her brother, now, she's just showing you her true colors, did you really think she wouldn't turn on you, once you and her brother broke up? No matter how your ex and his sister feel about each other, they are always going to stick together, remember, "bloods thicker than water", that's just how it is. Stop wasting your time, being her friend, if I were you, I would have stayed away from her, a long time ago, she has stabbed you in the back too many time's and if you keep giving her the opportunity to do so, she'll keep doing it. You've only got yourself to blame, if you keep trusting her and giving her all these chances, to be a good friend to you.
2006-11-22 12:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes being a good friend, means to walk away.
If you can walk away from a friend, while they are still a friend, before they can betray you (again). They will always be your friend. If you wait until it 'gets too much', it's difficult to maintain a friendship and you end up parting ways in a 'severed friendship' which often is irrepairable.
What would it take for me? A hint that I'm not worth a friendship to them. I'll walk away, but be available. I know I'm worthwhile, but I'm not going to put pressure on a fragile relationship to prove it either.
...sorry, too long an answer?
2006-11-22 12:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by Oh, I see 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a choice has been made like in a situation I was in I was not chosen over someone else or given any priority, that is when I stop. If its a one way street and you are always on the opposite of that road then its not benefiting you. You need to be around those who care about you and your well-being. ANd you do the same for them. She sounds like bad news...in time it will only get worse....you never turn on your family.
2006-11-22 12:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by DANNY B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she keeps throwing stuff in your face and being a butt about everything then I would just give up on that friendship. Seems to me, that she would rather throw problems at you and then not even thank you for the problems that you help her with. If a friend was doing that to me ( depending on how good the relationship was with him/her) I would either give them time to get over themselves and cool down or just up and not talk to them anymore.
2006-11-22 12:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by angels_killed_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mooch. Someone who's always on for the handout, whatever it might be, but gone when you need help. I've had two of them One I successfully shook, the other isn't shaking. I guess I've trained her too well to keep trying and she'll get whatever it is.
If I had your problem, however, I'd have given up trying to be good and/or help her, just not cut her off if she needs an ear.
2006-11-22 12:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lies
Cheats
Rumors
Backstabbing
Even being stabbed in the front...
Expectations (way too high)
Not being able to let go of a grudge (if he/she keeps them)
Finding that they cant take a second out of their lives for you
&& Finding that there are people out there who are dying to be the sweetest they ever could to you...its better to be friends with them than just spend your time over one pointless name-for-sake friend.
2006-11-22 12:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone betrays me once, I can forgive if it's not too hurtfulm but when someone does it more than once, and they know they're doing it, I've had enough.
You can't stay in a friendship that obviously isn't working out. Her backstabing is her decision. Tell her how you feel and let go. It's for your own good.
2006-11-22 12:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by layla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's it. If she stabs you in the back all the time, she's done with. If she doesn't regard your feelings by being nice, than she shouldn't be your frind.
How could you let her do that to you?
2006-11-22 12:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Betrayal
2006-11-22 12:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by Iggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋