first - forgive them, hate is like a poison that we drink hoping that the other person will get poisoned
2006-11-22 04:15:35
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answer #1
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answered by Михайловна 2
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If they did something to you to make you hate them, try to understand why they did it. Usually someone who is cruel or does something mean either doesn't realize it's hurtful, or does it because they have been emotionally damaged at some point. Try to understand that this was a manifestation of their pain.
2006-11-22 12:17:24
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answer #2
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answered by vlalto 3
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What is Chrisian love?
2006-11-22 12:14:27
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answered by Angel Eve 6
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It's hard believe you me..But if you beleive totally in God and Jesus then You have to open your heart and try and after a while it should happen, it will not happen over night..
However if you are not a Christian, then forget it>
2006-11-22 12:16:44
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answered by Tazman 2
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Try to focus on something positive about them. Everyone has at least one good quality. If you concentrate on focusing on that aspect of them, it might help you slowly alter your feelings.
2006-11-22 12:15:16
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answered by cheyennetomahawk 5
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You need to ask God for forgiveness. Then you need to be a bigger person, and go to this person and show 'love'(friendship).
2006-11-22 12:15:01
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answered by HowdyThere 5
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Pray and ask God to make the change.
2006-11-22 12:15:21
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answered by Calvin James Hammer 6
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You have to forgive them. Very difficult, I know.
2006-11-22 12:14:56
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answer #8
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answered by Local Celebrity 4
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By realizing that Jesus died for that person too.
2006-11-22 12:18:52
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answered by Ivar 4
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Dont change. Time will change.
2006-11-22 12:14:47
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answered by rams 4
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