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i got the fright of my life the other night when i walked into my room after work only to walk in on my sister gettin changed and i seen parts i shouldnt have and quickly closed the door
when she came back out she didnt look at me and it has been a little weird between us

i Feel Sick with the thought of me liking it as im 19 and shes 23

2006-11-22 04:07:38 · 20 answers · asked by David 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

people say knock its my room

i expected her to be using her own room

2006-11-22 04:14:01 · update #1

i dont have feelings for my sister i just liked what i saw

2006-11-22 04:16:03 · update #2

i will quote balloons

2006-11-22 04:24:15 · update #3

20 answers

chill

nothing should be wierd your brother and sister !

I lived in a small house hold with one bathroom and one of us would be in the bath while the other sister was brushing her teeth and my brother going to the toilet

your family its all natural

kinda wierd you enjoyed it though unless you haven't had much contact with females before.

2006-11-22 04:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by weizy_26 4 · 0 2

Okay I was reading some of the posts that other people left. honestly does everyone in here knock on their own door before they go inside? That's kinda weird! Look it was a mistake and to tell the truth its not your fault and its not your sisters fault if you both live in the same house then it doesn't lI'mit you to where you go! Who cares she was in your room! You know what im saying. See you should not take this to heart meaning do not go put a lock on your door now and do this crazy stuff because that will indeed hurt her because she will know your doing that cause of her. Also to tell the truth you should no be having feelings about your sister like that. Every female has her own beauty and what you said you might have been comparing her to just another lady but understand that's your blood. See yea okay she looks good but don't take it so seriously. To tell the truth I bet it hurts her more she is a lady and their body is very private and sensitive meaning that even if its her own brother seeing her or another man it hurts them emotionally. So as a man i think it would be best that you go to her and say that what happened was a mistake and that you didn't know she was in side the room and if she was you wouldn't have went in. That would help her understand that your not crazy or something. Also if she is reading this she knows how you feel by now. Good Luck

2006-11-23 17:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by Roshan 1 · 0 0

"i Feel Sick with the thought of me liking it as im 19 and shes 23"

"cough cough" Whats that suppose to mean?
well the thoughts will subside after a while so go easy on em. But try to patch up the relation asap. Coz if you dont, the gap will only grow. later you'll find it difficult to say anything intimate to her. Do something like leaving a note on her desk asking her for pardon explaining yourself and that you would really want things to come back to normal between both of you.

2006-11-22 12:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0 0

Well have you talked to your sister. It's going to be awkward if you guys don't say anything to each other. Say i'm sorry for walking in on you or something i mean you guys are blood this is something that you should be able to pass though and keep moving. If the was me and my little brother of course there would be problems because after I get dressed i would run to him and be like what the heck is your problem you don't know how to knock when the door is closed. Simple as that.
good luck

2006-11-22 12:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by MIA 3 · 0 1

i think just move on with your lives - act like nothing happened.
this has always worked for me through out my life, my best way of dealing with awkward stuff. im sure the other person will forget it too.
act like u saw nothing - or say u saw nothing and forgot it, dont make it a big deal for both of u, laugh it off if u have to.
move on.!
ur family this does happen just dont b a retard! ur like second after your Dad, and for instance, im sure ur not such a retard to think this way around ur own kids wen u have them one day.
grow up! its no big deal, immature retard!
if u really have to u could go tell ur Mum, so she can tell u all not to use each others rooms and give u all locks. Locks are important since u all are older now. I would tell my Mum if i were quite upset about this or something. Mum will sort it all out.

- yeah jus dont worry about it, all girls and women have balloons, balloons are everywhere, ur daughters will have balloons, ur wife and girlfriends will have balloons, its no big deal. all u can really do now is move on and forget the embarrasing moment. embarrassing stuff like this happens just dont b a freak or immature about it, normally people would try not to make a big deal out of it. unless their asking for humiliation.

2006-11-22 12:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Talk to her about it for gods sake. Tell her you are sorry, and ask her to use her own room next time. She is probably very embarrased about it. Even though u did, tell her u didnt really see anything anyway ..... and get urself a girlfriend. Then u can see these things more frequently. :)))

2006-11-22 12:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by reptilebloke 2 · 2 0

Nothing to be ashamed off. Don't take it to heart. Try to make a joke of it, finding out why she was in your room. Perhaps she needs your help with something and if she's pretty, don't be ashamed of that, try to tell her that you're pleased to have a sister like her.

2006-11-22 12:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by checkmate 6 · 0 1

You shouldn't be 'liking it' mate. She's your sister. Put all thoughts like that out of your mind.
There's nothing wrong with admiring any female form, but leave it at that when it's your sister, or you'll have the cops onto ya!!!

2006-11-22 12:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by Phlodgeybodge 5 · 3 0

You do not have a girl friend I assume. Stop thinking about your sister, find a girlfriend.

2006-11-22 12:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lilu 3 · 0 0

Just apologise and promise to knock in future - the awkwardness will pass its just embarassment . xx

2006-11-22 12:12:42 · answer #10 · answered by starlet108 7 · 0 0

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