when your heart has been broken, everyday you feel dead. how can you die, without killing yourself?

Answer 1

Very hard.But let the time pass.This is only life we have.....

Answer 2

In a way, you have died inside. A part of your soul has been ripped out and the part that is left is wounded.

But, that's not the end of the story. I believe and have seen in my life, that everything happens for a reason. You don't know what life would have turned out like if this hadn't happened. It may be worse in the long run, or you could have missed out on someone much better.

Unfortunately, there is nothing that can prove that what I'm saying is true. Nothing can prove that there is something better to come, or that something worse was prevented. It's in these times when you feel empty that you have to pull up and crawl out, even if it's on your belly.

When your heart is broken and everything seems hopeless, advice that involves being hopeful and positive strikes you as such cliche bull$#!t. You're in pain, and sometimes even worse, your heart goes silent and you don't feel anything at all.

Start with watching some funny movies. Ones you can't help but laugh at. Then go do something you enjoy. Slowly but surely you will come out and things will start seeming more enjoyable and somewhere along the way you will feel better. It will always sting, but you will finally start to feel again. I promise.

Answer 3

You sound very very depressed. Looks like you have handed your remote control of your feelings to everyone around, your feelings are your own, how can you allow others to break your heart? Take control of your life. Looks like you fall under the "nice people" category, who are on a roller coster of emotions. You may have some boundry issues, you said your heart has been broken everyday, means there are many who are doing the job of breaking your heart.
Keep a clean distance in every relationship, you give in more than you want to in order to be accepted. You have an unknown anxiety in relationships. This could be an unconscience need within you, hence you always want to be nice to people. You dont have to. Seeing a counselor is surely a good idea,
You can die but why die before learning a good skill, why die an incomplete death, will you be happy? What ever happened to you is good, because you wanted help hence you put this post her and get some answers to questions you never had in life. You are courageous and surely want some thing to be done with your problems. And look what you got for asking. Asking for help is a sure sign of strength and you have this in abundance. Keep moving.
when you are being nice to people ask your self why am i being nice? If you get an answer "acceptance" just say no! Working on relationship is an art, learn the art, look it up on the internet there is lots of information. Knowledge is power, get powerful.
Hope i have helped you.

Answer 4

Stop being a wussy. There are too many other women in this world to kill yourself over one. Here are some tips...

) A woman will behave differently according to
her MOOD. If she's happy when she's with you, then
she might act like she's enjoying herself. If you
call the next day and she's depressed because she
still has no self-esteem, then she's probably not
going to call you.

2) ATTRACTION is the key. You must realize that if
you dial up the attraction by creating Sexual
Tension, etc. then you'll have a much stronger
chance of seeing her again.

3) Don't chase. When you talk to her again, make
sure you don't communicate that you NEED
anything... especially attention or approval.

4) Lose the need to have every woman like you. One
big weakness that most men have is a woman who
won't call back. But remember, women are the same
way. Read the email at the beginning of this
newsletter from the attractive woman for details.

5) You always have options. When you know how to
meet women anytime you want, then it doesn't
matter what happens in a particular situation. And
if it doesn't matter, women can SENSE it. This is
a VERY attractive quality.

Answer 5

Everyday make time to go outside for a walk,take your dog go to the store or around a few blocks. nothing major it is good exercise for you and your dog and even your mind.exercises and outdoor activities naturally will take away depression and hopefully give your mind some peace. do not hesitate to talk to someone about seeing a Professional or doctor if your unable to break out of the feelings your in.i see this being a good place to start making life better in many little ways that could make a big difference.it can be tough but remember to be nice to your siblings, there the best link to your past and are most likely to be there in the future, one last fact;you are not as fat as you think you are .

Answer 6

Don't dwell. Move forward. Before you move on, you might ask yourself why your heart was broken. Not just that someone left you, but why? If you do this, one of two things might happen...
1. You will realize what you did wrong and improve yourself.
2. You will realize you did nothing wrong. You simply weren't meant for each other. In this case, you will be better off without each other.

Answer 7

You have experienced a death of sorts, a death of the relationship, a death of innocence, a death of a period of your life. Grieving is an important part of the healing process, and it doesn't happen overnight.

That broken feeling does go away after a while, I promise it really does. Keep remembering that in the bad moments.

Be kind to yourself and be honest about your feelings, and remember that the hurt does go away and you will be fine and move on to happy times again.

Answer 8

This is a natural feeling. I've been there too. You are experiencing what every human being experiences at least once in their life time. Every relationship either stays or breaks up. This one didn't work out. There are many other people in this world to give your love to. You are a loving person with the will to love. Don't just sit and think about it. Stay busy with your life, with friends and family and, move on.

Answer 9

So many of us have been there - and when it happens to somebody for the first time when you are in middle age its far worse than when teenagers have their quarrels. Be strong, tell yourself it could have been hell had you stayed together and come out of it stronger ready to face the next challenge. Time and time alone will heal the hurt and you will look back and say "What the hell was all that about?"

Answer 10

Sorry about what your going through bub, but you need to realize that it's not the end of the world. And there is no woman in this here world worth killing yourself over.

Answer 11

you can't because as long as you are physically alive then nothing but time will heal your wounds, you will relize how much things will get better and i'm actually a person who has tried to kill herself and i relalized that it wasnt worth it and I see that you are a lot stronger than you think you are and i've had a lot of broken hearts , they will heal and you will eventually meet someone who won't break your hear give it time