Why do men get the easy way out after a divorce?

Answer 1

men are maybe emotionaly stronger to deal with it, plus find it easy to enter into a new relationship

Answer 2

Men do not always get the easy way out. In a lot of cases, yes, they are required to pay at least child support, they are HIS KIDS too. Do people think just because a divorce happens that the children are not provided for? That should be the most important thing to care for when MOMMY and DADDY split!

In an ideal situation: If MOMMY & DADDY are going to split....don't make it any harder for the children....they are loosing anyways!! Don't split the marital home in half! The ones to leave the marital home are the PARENTS! Maintain the marital home for the kids! The parents take turns on caring for the kids in there environment that they have always been use too.....why upset that? The parents (separately) get a place of there own when they are not caring for the kids. Every body wins! AND NEVER BUT NEVER PUT THE OTHER PARENT DOWN IN FRONT OF THE KIDS......NEVER!! If anything, it's BAD FORM!

When the kids have a game, or other function, BOTH parents be there.....anything to do with the kids...BOTH parents are always there! Life is too short!! There will always be a connection because of the kids. Take care of them......don't make them go through something they should not have to!

Men don't have it easy after a divorce nor do women. Divorce is a hurtful and is awful!! If it wasnt all about money with the Courts and the Courts made it more difficult to get a divorce, there would be less of them (as well as handing out wedding licenses so easy...there should be more stipulations so that people realize how serious the commitment of marriage is!

Answer 3

Men don't get the easy out after a divorce. It seems like they do but they don't! Actually researches have shown that men had the worst after a divorce. Men don't talk about how they feel and they usually they keep it inside of them and it is one of the causes of depression for men.

Don't forget! What happens after the divorce!
Who ended up moving out of "the house"? The man!
Who has to pay for the Child support? "The man".
Who keeps the children most of the time" "The Woman"
Who can see the children only once in a while or only on the weekend? "The man"

Women seem to go through the most because we tell other people how we feel and we cry it out and people see it.

So when you think of it now? Who has it the "worst"!

Answer 4

What do mean easy? Most of the time the mothers have to care for the kids most of the time and the guys resent sending support. I like the new system of 50/50 so the dad's have to have the kids 50 percent and the mothers 50 and no child support. My ex husband ask for support and did not get because he had not held a job in 15 years . I supported him long enough. He just got another dumb girl to support him again. The courts are getting so everything is 50/50 at least that is what happen to me. I wish I would have come out on top.

Answer 5

Well, my dad left when I was 2 and my mom had to raise me by herself, so I know all about that too well. A lot of times, it all depends on the kind of legal support and accountant the person has. If they have two extremely creative (and sometimes unethical and ruthless) supporters it can make all the difference.

However, not all men get the easy way out, because there are tons and tons of cases out there where men get absolutely beaten over the head by women who want to take them for everything they are worth. Some people in general (male or female) are just great liars, have great professional sources, and have absolutely no morals.

Answer 6

Answer is we Don't. I was kicked out of my house and she took it over. She got all the house contents. She has most of my personal property and tools etc and stuff of my late mothers. She lied at court and my solicitors did nothing about it even when I got a new one. She then poisoned my two girls against me with her mum and alcoholic step father and I have not seen them for nearly 5 years. I pay child support every month but still do not see my children. I wrote to her last year asking if I could see my children and have some photographs, videos etc and she sent the Police round to tell me I was harrassing her. She has my property in the house, she committed perjury by lying throughout the court process and she has stolen doors and windows in the house from the local council but the Police would do nothing about that. They told me they would arrest me if I wrote to her again. I have written four or five times and received no reply and the Police did not return either. I have missed five years with my children, 5 christmas's, ten birthdays,at least five holidays, getting them up for school in the morning, seeing them come home at night, days out with them, going to the rugby with them. I am dreading yet another christmas without them.

How is what I have had to put up with an easy way out. I want to be at home with my children. Don't forget we are not all bad it seems like you had an appalling husband and my ex wife is just as bad. She controls and manipulates people (here favourite phrase). There are decent men out there and I have found a decent woman who has helped me forget my ex so you can do the same.

Answer 7

No one gets the easy way out after a divorce. Each person gets to suffer after it. The only difference is that when you are doing this, you are so into your pain that you can not see the other person's.
I have nursed both male and female friends through a divorce. It sucks for everyone.

Answer 8

That's not necessarily true, it depends on what happens during the negotiation of the divorce. There are lots of men who don't get what they want out of divorces, but have to deal with it. So, its not easy if that tends to happen.

Answer 9

I'm not sure what you mean. Typically, the man and woman fight for custody of the children and ownership of the house. And generally the women gets the kids and the house and alimony besides. A lot of men feel this is kind of unfair. The lawyers say that this has changed and is more equitable today. but I have had a couple of friends go through divorice and believe me, nothing has changed....

Answer 10

They don't always get the easy way out. More often than not they have to pay outrageous amounts of child support without having any say in how there kids are raised and seeing them when the ex lets them.
Divorce hurts everybody. Each situation is different but it is ridiculous to make this into a sexist thing.

Answer 11

What? You make no sense. Since when do men get the easy way out? It's not always the same, it's court decided.