email me anytime lilmsmooody@yahoo.com
2006-11-22 03:17:27
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answer #1
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answered by lilmsmooody 2
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How old are you? Where are your parents?
Being older is not an answer to any of your problems, whatever they may be. When you are older, you will still encounter problems, the only difference is, you will handle them differently and some adults have problems handling situations in a proper manner too. Nothing and no one has all the answers, no matter what age.
I wish I knew more about what you are going through and I also wish you will seek out organizations that can and will help you. You do not need money nor your parents consent to obtain help. Especially if you are feeling desperate. You can visit this website for information and there are many more.
As a concerned citizen and I am a parent as well and I would be devastated to know that my son felt this alone and confused. So I take this seriously.
There is too much in this world for you to miss and I know for a fact there is someone out there that loves you more then you know.
2006-11-22 03:21:25
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answer #2
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answered by megabites42 3
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Everyone goes through tough times in their life. Being young is actually a great thing, which you may not realize untill later. Please do not hurt yourself there is more to life then what is going on now. Please call a helpline so you can talk to someone live. The number is in any phone book and it is a free call. I am not a doctor or a nurse, but I have had my share of tough times.Believe me it can and will get better. Maybe you just need some therapy and anti depressants, you may have a chemical imbalance. A lot of people do, more than you would think. Good luck
2006-11-22 03:30:25
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answer #3
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answered by TrueLibra 2
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A List if People That are Much Smarter Then ME That Would Be Better Then Talking To Strangers On The Internet.
Paster.
A Rabbi.
A Priest.
A officer that could possibly recommend someone.
A School Guidance Conciliar -thats what there here for, it's there job to listen
A favorite teacher.
A therapist.
A shrink.
Believe it or not your parents/older relatives-they were kids/teenagers 2 they should know how hard it was to be young even in there era.
All people you can find anywhere in real life. Not to lecture you but I hope this helps. As for me well I guess if your really desprate u could try it but I would try all the folks on my list first then go to me. I'm not a therapist or religous person so I'm not really qulified but if u do end up trying me I hope I could come up with some wise intelligent answers to whatevers bugging you.
2006-11-22 03:20:59
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answered by missgigglebunny 7
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How old are you? Do you live with parents?
I grew up in horrible circumstances too. Bad parents, bad neighborhood and poverty. I started to go down the wrong street the wrong direction in life.
But then I decided I did not want to die that I wanted a good life. I sat and thought about how to do that. I joined an Upward Bound Club in High school and it got me away from my home to live at a college dorm in the summers (3 mos). I said wow I can do this again. So I survived 9 mos at home (mostly at friends homes) just so that I could go back to the dorms every summer. Then as soon as I turned 17 and graduated I drove off to college and never looked back. I went to college four years found my future husband there and life was grand.
Nothing is so bad you should die. God wants you to live no matter how hard things are. And he wants you to change your live for the better. It is up to you and you can do it with a little help.
You do not state what your problems are for us to give suggestions to you. And all kids want to be older and then when you get older you want to be younger. I did the same thing. But I can tell you this young age is the hardest in LIFE things get better as you get older.
Why do you need a doctor or nurse? Are you ill? Are you getting abused?
If it is parents or family or even friends who are hurting you, report them. To a teacher or cop. If it is real bad, just get out of the house and go to a Family Resource Center, Church (any), or an attorneys office or any state agency. There are agencies and programs out there that will help you. Look in the yellow pages.
You can even show up at a hospital because they have to treat you and they will report any abuse. If your family is hitting you or more, let them face the law. You need to be SAFE.
All kids grow up and any life can become better but you need to ASK for HELP. Please talk to someone who can help you. And dont even thing of suicide. It does not help it hurts others. And when you go to heaven you are with others who did the same thing and you are stuck there with crying souls in the darkness. Dont do it, it is not a way out.
Please help yourself, NOW.
2006-11-22 03:27:43
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answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6
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Buddy, I have had some crappy things happened to me, never got to that point of wanting to die, but actually died inside and became self-destructive, even to the point of hurting myself. But it doesn't have to be the way you feel now. You don't like what is going on, do something about it. If you have no parents, be your own parent and learn to make good decisions while still having fun.
Church is a good thing. My mom died when I was 6, father died when I was ten. Was raised by this person and that one, but I would say in all that the Church of Christ has become my family and I get all the love, attention, encouragement from many fathers, mothers, brothers, sisiters, and we are very close.
Stay around positive people, places, and things, they are out there if you look.
2006-11-22 03:31:45
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answered by Frank P 1
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O best of luck young one. i hope that you're life leads to greener pastures later in life.. When i was 11&12 i was suicidal because my dad has just been arrested for some serious crimes. dont do it, see where your life leads it may turn out that you are going thru this rough patch for a reason so that you can be a mentor in a year or so. It may be that god is testing your faith and that he put this in your life and if you get through this i myself will promise you that there will be happiness and rewards. What exactly in your life is going wrong? are you having a hard time in school? what is going on with you?? please contact me via yahoo ask as i dont know how to use the email!!
good luck
kels
2006-11-22 03:16:41
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answered by Anonymous
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well honey i hate to tell you this but you are not the only kid that has ever felt like this. i am so sorry that you feel this way, i really am. have you talked to your nurse or guidance counselor at school? they could help you to get back on track. please don't wish you were older, you think life in complicated now it gets worse but you learn to except it and to Love Life. you really need to get some counseling and find out why you feel this way b/c i really know how you feel about not having anyone to talk to. i wish you the best of luck and PLEASE hang in there and DON'T GIVE UP!!!!
2006-11-22 03:19:11
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answered by mmh 4
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what's up, what is the problem? How come you want to die???? You should really not say that though. How old are you???
I went through some hard times when I was a kid, I am more than willing to help you. Just let know what you want to do.
2006-11-22 03:15:33
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answered by vgplamondon 2
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hey hey hey !!life cant be so bad can it?i know everyone feels so angry and sad with life sometimes as we all have small arguments with friends and fights with our parents and i feel the same sometimes as i am 13.wats is your age?i am sure you arent a small kid.just look at the bright side of life .you are a child right now but once this face passes you arent going to be the same child without any problems any more.u are going to be an adult with really many responsibilities .take life as it comes to you.i am sure life isnt so bad.if you want to feel calm and refreshed and throw all your problems away email me or add me on your Yahoo! messenger.my email is -
mishael_hussaini@yahoo.com
hope this makes u feel better.
love
2006-11-22 03:45:33
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answered by Love My Crazy Hair! ★☆★ 5
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Don't worry, nobody will report you we are all here to help each other.
You can email me if you want, or add details in your question about your problem; I'm not a doctor but my mother is a nurse and she knows everything!
So?
2006-11-22 03:20:02
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answered by Irouli 2
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