I think your feelings are completely rational, and I almost had the same problem myself. I told my man that if he has a stripper at his bachelor party, the wedding is off. period. I think strippers are one of the reasons that women are still treated as second class citizens, and to have any woman treated in the way that they allow themselves to be treated is degrading towards women as a whole. That being said...I know at least 3 of his groomsmen will want strippers. I plan on letting them know how I feel, and that there will be no wedding if there are strippers. My brothers are both groomsmen as well, so if there are strippers, I will know. I trust my little brother more than I trust any one...he would never lie to me (family comes first to him). If the others do get him a stripper, or try to take him to a strip club, then my fiance will have to leave. period. He is a grown man, he cannot be forced to do anything. If he chooses his friends over me and stays, that is a sure sign that he isnt ready for marriage any way!
2016-03-12 21:21:24
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answered by Anonymous
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Numerology reading for October 1, 1988
This Year: 1
This is a period of new beginnings. It is time to make a new start, make decisions, and to forge ahead with the momentum of energy that has been building. The things that you begin now are likely to last at least nine years, if not a lifetime, so make your decisions with this in mind. You have an abundance of energy now that can be used for anything you choose. Health, wealth, and creativity abound. It is your turn to stand alone, assert your independence, and act.
Personal Day: 7
Be alone. The thinker. Hang out in the library all day or find a secluded place out-of-doors. Profound ideas can be thought of today. Meditate, rest, and listen to Gregorian chants. Wear dark colors to shield you from prying eyes.
Life Path or Destiny: 1
The Destiny number describes the life lessons that we have come here to learn. It reveals to us the path we must take, and the role we must play to fulfill our mission. Often our choice of career is based on this vibration, and if not, then it will manifest through avocational pursuits. We may attract people and experiences into our lives that mirror the traits of this number for us, so that we may develop into our highest potential. We don't always welcome our life lessons, so it is a possibility that we may even feel an aversion to the characteristics of our Destiny number in other people, and we may ourselves act the opposite. In spite of the many ways we may choose to react to this force within us, we have been gifted with all of the talents and energy needed to fulfill our Destiny. You are a pioneer. Independent, original and strong willed you have all of the tools of leadership and self-mastery. You must learn to use your courage, creativity and unique individuality to steadfastly make your dreams come true. Inventor, originator, initiator your key word is discover.
Cycles
The destiny is divided into 3 great cycles, each governing us for specific durations throughout our life. The Seed cycle begins at birth and colors our experiences through childhood and adolescence. During the year nearest our 28th birthday, we move into the Fruit cycle which remains throughout the middle part of our life until the year nearest our 56th birthday, and the Harvest cycle carries on from there. Taken all together, the cycles show us our particular path that will lead to the fulfillment of our destiny.
Seed: 1
When 1 is the seed cycle it is more difficult, as the child is surrounded by other people guiding their life, and the inner desire for independence, freedom and self-motivation can lead to conflicts with authority or withdrawal.
Fruit: 1
Initiation, independence, ambition and self-reliance are the key words during this cycle. It is a good time to work on the development and expression of original, and creative ideas. Self-confidence, strength of character and will are prevalent and success in your own business is likely.
Harvest: 8
Manage all that money wisely! This is the time of either reward for wise choices in the past, or hard work, usually to maintain all of the success. It is important to use discernment at this time, especially when finding someone to manage the very important things to you, like your finances. You could easily start a new company now or diversify into a new field or project. Luck and assistance are with you. It's not likely that you'll consider "retirement", however, it is important to find a lot of time for rest and maintaining emotional relationships for your health.
Pinnacles
The four pinnacles reveal the high spots or heights of attainment that we are likely to encounter as we move along the path of our life. The 1st pinnacle lasts from birth to around age 28. The 2nd pinnacle lasts for 9 years after that. the 3rd pinnacle lasts 9 more years, and the 4th pinnacle carries on through the rest of our life. The peak of the pinnacle is reached during the next 1 personal year. Pinnacles are like sudden inheritances from a benevolent aunt, they can transform the prevailing energies completely and suddenly. It is useful to look ahead and prepare for our pinnacles so that we can maximize their gifts to us and shape them into the most positive manifestation.
First Pinnacle: 2
Diplomacy and harmony are to be striven for, as is balance in every situation. Emotions may be very sensitive, causing tears of compassion and joy and maybe a few of frustration. This is a time of patient waiting and accumulation of information. Empathic abilities are blossoming.
Second Pinnacle: 9
9 vibrations are encouraging you to tie up loose ends, and have a garage sale of the mind, body, and spirit. You are preparing, and making room for a whole new phase of life at the end of this pinnacle period. It is a time of thanksgiving, and many of your goals may now be realized.
Third Pinnacle: 11
The 11 pinnacle opens a door to very high vibrational realms, flooding you with energy that may feel like nervousness. It is important to harness this energy and focus it into something tangible.
Fourth Pinnacle: 9
Some call the 9 vibration "payday". All of the experiences before now have accumulated into a sense of understanding or knowing, and it is a good time to share your knowledge with others.
Challenges
The three challenges show us the major influences demanding our attention during specific sections of our lifetime. The 1st challenge influences the years from birth to age 28. The 2nd challenge takes over from age 28 to 52, and the third affects us our whole life. Challenges shape our attitudes and can affect our health. These vibrations that challenge us, cause either an exaggeration of the associated qualities or a lack of them, both of which are extremes which need to be brought into balance.
First Challenge: 0
0 brings the challenge of balancing selfishness with selflessness. There is usually some reason that the child is forced into independence early. They are sometimes born of older parents or to large families where they are made to be responsible for younger siblings, or small families where they play the role of parent to their own parents. The 0 challenge is sometimes called the challenge of the "old soul", and the children are likely to be very wise. In the teenage years they become loners or profound, romantic poets. They begin their life long search for a soulmate.
Second Challenge: 7
The challenge of intellectual freedom and life's deep, hidden mysteries. The 7 must learn to conquer their self-doubt and fear so that they may reveal to the world all of the profound discoveries that their agility of mind has uncovered. Usually preferring to be alone, or else with one other like-minded searcher, the 7 needs to make the effort to be around people if only as an avenue to share the knowledge. "Following your bliss", and having faith in yourself and your fellow man are the keys to balancing the 7 challenge.
Third Challenge: 7
This is the challenge of transforming fear into faith. It often leads one to live a life of reclusive intellectual probing into the deepest recesses of knowledge and mystery. Consequently, the 7 challenge can be the making of a genius. The CHALLENGE is that the genius is so full of self-doubt and fear that they are unable to share their wisdom with the world, which is a remedy for this challenge. All limitations are self-imposed. They often appear aloof to others, and are so self-depreciating that their fear of loneliness can be a self fulfilling prophesy. The 7 challenge asks us to cultivate faith in ourselves, our ideas and our intuition. To come out into the world and let down our defenses so that others may benefit from intellectual and spiritual genius.
My advice is cut off communications with the people that are causing you grief meaning don't talk to anyone that is yelling at you, as what ever you have to say will not be heard only when someone wants to approach you and talk to you without yelling only then you will be heard. You are only young and are going through a personal growth which will help you later in life. As for relationships, work & money you have to be in a clear mind and with so much grief around you thinking is probably impossible for you right now.
"Divide and Conquer"
Love & Blessings
Milly
2006-11-22 07:53:35
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answer #7
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answered by milly_1963 7
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