i told my parents im pregnant. im 13 and they wont get my an abortion. should i kill myself? My life wont get better
2006-11-22 02:53:40 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Listen, your baby isn't even aware of anything at this point. It can't be scared and will have no concept or understanding of even existing. Yes you're too young to have a child, especially if you can't raise or take care of it, but killing yourself does nothing. Since you believe in god and heaven why not just wait and live your life until you die of natural causes? You'll be with it eventually regardless. Honestly it sounds like you're really not thinking clearly and need some help. Talk to someone ASAP.
2016-03-29 05:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
n excellent online resource to "chat" real time with peers who may be experiencing the same feelings or issues as you are is http://www.ChatSuicide.org. ChatSuicide.org is an anonymous text-based chat that you can access from your phone or computer. Peer support is often recognized as more effective than some of the other support options, but should not in itself replace other forms of help either.
Give it a try, it's anonymous - http://www.ChatSuicide.org
2014-01-30 02:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Now what would that achieve? Two dead bodies, so young. You need some counseling, not joking. You have some problems that I am sure not even you are aware of. WHY WOUL D YOU WANT AN ABORTION? Do do the deed you get the prize. Have kids NOT learned what happns when you have sex?
But now to the baby...you have a beautiful innocent life inside you, just waiting to come into the world with a fresh brain thrilling to learn. If you later decide that keeping the baby for you is not in the baby's best interests, you can put him/her up for adoption. There are many places that will let YOU pick who gets to be the lucky parents of your beloved child. Loving couples makes videos and write diaries and submit them to adoption agencies to show mothers who are considering adoption why they would make the best parents. You never have to meet them or have them meet you if you don't wish. If you pick this route and the family while you are pregnant, in some cases they pay for your medical care for you to make sure their baby will be ok.
Rethink your thoughts on this. Consider seeing a counselor.
CONGRATS!
2006-11-22 03:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by Summer H 3 · 7⤊ 6⤋
Just get an abortion! you dont have to kill yourself!
~February 20th, 2017 @5:56 am
2017-02-20 17:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by Jada 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What??? of course your life will get better! You're only 13....when i was 13 I was miserable too....we all were. It's a very difficult age. You have other options, you can give the child up for adoption. That way the child will have a happy life and you will have the opportunity to finish school and make something of your life. Suicide is a permenant answer to a temporary problem
2006-11-22 02:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 4 · 7⤊ 6⤋
Your Parents Won't Let You Get An Abortion?
Kill Them
2014-12-13 11:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 7⤋
Call a crisis pregnancy center. You think that your life won't get any better, but did you consider that you could give some couple the greatest joy of their lives? You, at 13, could make someone so happy by giving your baby up for adoption. Your life will get better...just hang in there! Are your parents willing to support you in keeping the baby or giving it up? Talk to them about the best plan of action. Your life is not over! Think about how you can make this situation positive for everyone. I wish you the best!
2006-11-22 03:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by rutheo 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋
No you should defenitly not kill yourself. Your life will get better, it will just be hard for a little while. But remember it will just make you a stronger person in the end.
First of all if you are only 13 then what are you doing having unprotected sex, well what are doing have sex period for that matter. you are too young to have sex, as you can see, bad things can happen. well let me rephrase that because having kids is not a bad thing, but it can be for young people, like yourself. If you parents are not going to help you with an abortion, then it is probably thier way of teaching you that you shouldn't have done what you did in the first place.
and your life will get better, just think, you will have a cute little baby to take care of, and they will grow and grow and grow and before you know it, you will be the happiest person alive, knowing that is your baby and no one can take that away.
good luck and try wrapping it from now on if you decide you want to have sex.
2006-11-22 03:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by vgplamondon 2 · 7⤊ 6⤋
If you're on the level, you should contact your local Planned Parenthood or ACLU. My understanding of parental consent laws regarding abortion is that you should be able to appear before a judge and make your case, and the judge can authorize an abortion if he or she believes it's the best thing to do. If you're thirteen, I can't imagine any judge being cruel enough to force you to have a child and endanger your life against your will. PP or the ACLU should be able to advise you about how to proceed with this, although you need to move quickly for obvious reasons.
2006-11-22 03:21:24 · answer #9 · answered by Rose D 7 · 4⤊ 4⤋
Your life sucking don't matter. U got knocked up then u can sure as Hell take responsibility for it and take care of the baby as best u can. Don't kill yourself
2014-08-13 11:14:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋