Is it ok to masturbate when you are married? Some say NO because you have a mate for that job yet sometimes a guy just wants to just "take care fo business" with/without porn and without all the hoopla of sex with your mate. Thoughts anyone?
2006-11-22 02:52:45 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is OK.....why wouldn't it be?? As long as you still are sexual with you wife....why not??
2006-11-22 02:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is wrong at all. I think it is a slight turn-on actually. My husband and I don't have a problem with it at all. It just raises the excitement level for us. You have to be in a "good" mutual place in your relationship. Try to make your wife/girlfriend/mate feel secure in the fact that if you feel the need to pleasure yourself, it is not because she is not satisfying you or fulfilling your needs.
2006-11-22 03:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by ccmlgs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is perfectly natural. I am married and I would prefer my husband to masturbate vs cheating with another woman.
You can't get anyone pregnant with your hand and you surely can't catch any STD's from your hand.
I commend you for finding self gratification vs nagging your wife every five minutes. It's a very mature alternative.
Kudos to you!!!!!!!
2006-11-22 03:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Wife~and~Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong, its absolutely fine, as long as your partner is satisfied as well, if you do take care of her needs, then go ahead and have a good time. Masturbation isn't bad, its only bad when you are neglecting your responsibilities as a husband and think only of your pleasure and your wife is miserable because she never gets laid.
2006-11-22 02:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't wrong. If you remain faithful to your spouse this is just a way of pleasuring yourself when they aren't around. Mutual masturbation is the greatest. My husband loves to watch me come.
2006-11-22 02:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by puzzled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, sometimes you gotta do, what you gotta do. I don't think it is wrong. If she isn't in the mood, and you are about to burst, I don't see why it would hurt to ease your "pain". I don't know why most women get mad at this, like they haven't done the same. The only way they should get mad if it happens all the time(everyday) or they were in the mood, and he was chokin' it. :)
2006-11-22 02:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, spank away!! I gaurantee she is doing the double digit dip without you around too. It's not big deal, just don't let petting your snake get in the way of pleasing your partner. Are you pickin' up what I'm throwin' down?
2006-11-22 04:00:15 · answer #7 · answered by burnttoast97 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fine. I agree with you....smetimes you want sex and sometimes you just want to take care of business. I would be hurt if I saw my husband/boyfriend masturbating to porn though...
2006-11-22 02:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sara 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure it's OK. Do it together. Let your wife watch and you watch her. Let her know what fantasies get you off. Do it to each other. If you are really adventurous, invite some close friends over to watch and participate.
2006-11-22 02:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by superspiker69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong. If the wife says no, it's better to take care of yourself than go somewhere else and have them do it for you. I'm sure your wife would rather find you doing that than doing someone else.
2006-11-22 02:55:52 · answer #10 · answered by tipper 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
perfectly ok bro! i do it all the time! we have a healthy sex life, but sometimes i want to add spice. here's what makes my answer the best: AT LEAST YOU ARE NOT OUT CHEATING ON HER! you are just satisfying some healthy desires, and being good to your partner.
2006-11-22 02:58:07 · answer #11 · answered by _ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋