It sounds a little crude, but I'm not quite sure how to phrase it. I have interest in other things (and have done so.) It just seems that not liking that one act makes you abnormal in some way, via societal concerns. My desire for sex is normal and healthy,but I hate that one act.
2006-11-22 02:52:32 · 9 answers · asked by Gabrielle_Wills 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Not having it be your absolute favorite is a very common female opinion of vaginal sex. Out and out hating it is a little out of the common, but it doesn't make you abnormal or wrong.
What you need to do is figure out why you hate it.
Is it painful? Does it bring up bad memories? Do you dislike the penis? Do you fear pregnancy? If you figure out what is at the root of your particular dislike, yeah, there's probably something you can do to make you like it more. Or if you and your partner are both okay with no vaginal sex, you can just cut it out of your sex life. You are entitled to control what goes on in your bedroom.
2006-11-22 03:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by MissA 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your opinion is fine what I would say is to add spontenaity to your pleasurable moment add some toys, flavors, and other things that you think would occupy your mind when that moment comes in that area. Make it more interesting so that you won't think of the boring and dullness of the encounter. Make sure the mood is right and your partner is comfortable with the idea. Make it more spicy and fun, instead of the normal and everyday usual.
2006-11-22 03:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by sexceeladie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I SAY THIS IS A TOPIC YOU NEED TO BRING UP WITH YOUR PARTNER. I USED TO BE THE SAME WAY ABOUT NOT LIKING VAGINAL SEX. JUST A TIP FOR YOU. WHEN YOU ARE ON YOUR BACK AND HE IS IN FRONT OF YOU. TRY PUTTING ONE OR TWO PILLOWS UNDER YOUR REAR END. THIS WILL HELP HIM REACH DIFFERENT PARTS OF YOUR VAGINA WHICH WILL INCREASE SATISFACTION. MAYBE YOU CAN TRY THAT NEXT TIME. AND HEY, SEX IS ONE OF THOSE THINGS THAT IS UNIQUE TO EVERY PERSON. WHATEVER YOU LIKE DOING...IF YOUR PARTNER IS OKAY WITH IT TOO.........KEEP DOING IT. YOU SOUND PRETTY HAPPY WITH YOUR SEX LIFE.
2006-11-22 03:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Stop stressing...do what you like and what makes you happy. Here is the big BUT....if you have a partner who likes that....do it for them out of love and kindess then suggest doing something you like.
Best wishes.
2006-11-22 03:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by coolbeansnyc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is it about it that you don't like? Is it that you don't like it because you don't climax/orgasm off of it? If so, try a variety of positions.
2006-11-22 03:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have foreplay and lots of romance. Do whatever you can imagine.
2006-11-22 02:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by honker 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know lots of women and men that hate it too...whatever floats your boat dear.
2006-11-22 02:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Didn't say weather you male of female. So that makes it tuff to answer your question.
Seriously if your a man then either you might be gay or you have not had sex with anyone that has a tight vagina.
If your female - you might be a lesbian or have only had sex with men that have tiny penises or dont know what their doing.
2006-11-22 03:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 8⤋