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I'm moving on Dec 1st and have to sign closing documents on Thanksgiving morning. With all that's going I won't be able to have Thanksgiving with my family, my Boyfriend won't be home until Christmas, so it's just me and my Dogs. I'm still going to cook Though. In a way I'm glad, for some reason I just don't feel like entertaining everyone this year. How about you?

2006-11-22 02:46:20 · 11 answers · asked by TRACER 1 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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im also moving over thanksgiving and i wish i was by myself,all that packing,getting dirty,i hate it,but the pay off will be a brand new place,so its cool.

2006-11-22 02:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by jen 5 · 1 0

for me - this Thanksgiving will be just like the one before it and the one before that , etc.etc.etc.

I live alone and my parents are deceased. My 2 brothers are both SCUMBAGS and they live far away . I am not welcome in their homes and that's fine with me. They are S-C-U-M-B-A-G-S
bigtime.

I have very few gay friends, or "friends" - Period! the few queers I befriended all live with their sweethearts now and they live far away, too. I never found a boyfriend or lover and now I'm alone in my 40's - an older, embittered - angry f-a-g.

My straight acqaintances are all MARRIED now and not inviting me to share in their lives. same with the gay friends who have lovers. they like their privacy and keep to themselves.

on Thanksgiving, it will be just another thursday here in NY . No joy for me - no companionship or cheer. I will maybe open a can of sardines which I have had in my closet a long time - and now I'll finally eat it and get rid of it for the holiday. I ate sardines last thanksgiving also and it is now my custom. Or maybe I'll splurge and go out for a slice of pizza. (THis would be DINING OUT FOR ME!!!!

How I wish that the Lord God, when he created people, had created a match or a mate for EVERYONE - HE should have - but HE DIDN'T !!!!!!!!!

So my "holiday' this thursday will be a lonely, sad, somber, gloomy day - spent in thinking how things might have been otherwise.

I say - so help me God Almighty - that being a f-a-g is the worst curse and misfortune that could EVER befall a human being in this world. nothing is as horrible and miserable a life as how I have to live. and it's not my fault in any way.

And I've prayed and begged Jesus christ to do a miracle and change my brain to be normal - but HE REFUSED TO DO THIS FOR ME. Jesus does not do miracles like this very often.

so how do you like my "holiday " celebration this Thursday. ????

Isn't it such FUN to be a homosexual ?????? Huh????

2006-11-22 04:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0 0

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2016-10-17 09:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by ridinger 4 · 0 0

I was alone last Thanksgiving. I put an itty-bitty turkey in the crockpot and went to the movies. When I got back, I opened a bottle of wine, ate dinner, and watched the CSI marathon with no one to complain. It was more fun than I thought it would be.

2006-11-22 04:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by lcraesharbor 7 · 1 0

My husband and I will go to Evansville, IND for Thanksgiving with my family. Then on Saturday we host a Thanksgiving meal for allour friends - I have to cook, don't mind too much but I LOVE dressing and cannot make it worth crap and that always disappoints me!

2006-11-22 05:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Well Tracer. My mom and sister are 3 hours away and both spending the day with their in-laws. So no family get-together for me. I've started dating a guy and he is headed home this evening. Too early to take me home to his mom, or so he says. but that is another story. So it is me and my puppy on t-day. Will have a couple nice steaks together and then lay around in pain together and get fat. Willd eal with the over eating on the weekend. CHeers to being alone.

2006-11-22 03:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I live alone several states away from the rest of the family, so I'm making myself a small dinner, settling in with the cat and having a movie/video game marathon. It's more fun than you would think.

2006-11-22 05:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by Zeke 4 · 1 0

It's you 'n me, buddy.
Actually, my kid is with me (no real dogs, just my 2-legger), we'll be doing a Thanks-smorgie at our place. The other branches of our family tree are elsewise involved (two out of state, visiting; two with their mates; friends already set up their plans), so this'll be my very first one at home with no guests.
Can't wait! This has potential for some fun! Me!Me!Me! Me eat an' drink, an' yumyumyum.
You're lucky, you got dogs...love 'em fer me...

2006-11-22 04:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by Zeera 7 · 1 0

I am, but I'm making the most of it.

I am going to help serve Thanksgiving dinner at our MCC church (that's the church the glbt people go to here) and then afterwards I'm helping to deliver plates and food baskets to our members with HIV/AIDS who can't get out.

2006-11-22 03:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

sometimes a little alone time, can be best, a time to ponder a new life...a new home...and watch old movies and just eat anything you want.. read emails, think of tommorrow, remember yesterday...and look forward to the future..

(I will be at work for 16 hours, no celebration)

2006-11-22 03:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by southernboy 4 · 1 0

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