what do i do i cant belive this happened!!! and im only 13 and i know what i did and i dont care but hte fact that im 13 and pregnant
2006-11-22 02:44:48 · 18 answers · asked by Kelly 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Tell your parents! Talk to them and ask them for help. Make your decision together about your being pregnant. There are 3 options, abortion, adoption, and keeping your baby. Remember, you are 13. In my opinion, you probably shouldn't have been having sex, but you need to tell someone and make your decision early. It doesn't matter that your friend is pregnant and so are you, the fact is you are both 13 and you have made some serious decisions and this is the result. Please, if you don't do anything else, tell an adult you trust and try to get medical help. I wish you luck though, your situation is a hard one.
2006-11-22 02:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a mess. You have options. You should talk with your parents about what to do with the baby.
You are only 13 with so much life ahead of you...it wouldn't be fair to the baby or you for you to keep it. If you don't want to terminate, put the baby up for adoption.
Perhaps you should be on birth control if you are going to be sexually active? Did no one talk to you about sex and its consequences?
Just remember...whatever choice you make is not only going to affect you but a helpless innocent child. In the long run...do what is best for the child.
2006-11-22 11:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by Loli M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I notice that you & joleigh are asking the same ?
in the past she has advise you to jump down the stairs
if you two were such a good friend you guys would have know from talking that you are sleeping with the same guys
also I notice that you say that you don't care
well what do you want to know if you don't care
your freind posted another ? go answer
Good luck
2006-11-22 10:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god! you are pregnant at the age of 13, that was not a good thing definately.
most importantly, does your parents know abt it? if not, tell your parents immediately, ask them to help.
stop meeting that guy for a period of time
2006-11-22 10:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by dennis h 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont worrie dose your friend know DOSE YOUR PARENTS KNOW??? if not tell that person im 14 and alot of myfriends ended up pregnat so if u just need to talk e-mail me i am here okay for both of you and get away from the guy both of yall need better than that how old is your friend and how old is this guy
just e-mail me and i will be able to help you ALOT more than wati can on here
2006-11-22 10:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by ♥kimberly luvs you♥ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ask your guardian to take you to get an abortion....you have no business raising a baby and you should have been taught about sex and how to prevent pregnancy....if you don't feel comfortable talking to your parents....tell a teacher that you trust....take care of it.
2006-11-22 10:46:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Jackson 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
IF U NO WHAT U DID AND U DON'T CARE THEN HOW CAN U HATE THAT U R PREGNANT? U KNEW WHAT COULD HAPPEN AND YOU WERE STUPID ENOUGH TO GET PREGNANT ANYWAY. THAT'S WHY U DON'T HAVE SEX WHEN U ARE TO YOUNG TO HANDLE THE CONSEQUENCE.
2006-11-22 10:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by ROSIE 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That is sad - but, you can learn from this mistake in your
life. Sometimes adoption agencies will let the birth mother
be a small part of the baby's life; through letters, phone calls,
and occasional visits. Please consider adoption!!
2006-11-22 10:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by judy f 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you girls just bored cause your out of school today?? Well- I hope your having tons of fun..but it's sad that you dont have anything else to do...
2006-11-22 10:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by Amy B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that's sad. talk to your parents. they need to know from you and not from your buldge as you get further along. oh and hopefully you have learned
2006-11-22 10:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋