Hi i am 22 and 4 months pregnant. Over the summer i went on a cruise ship for a vacation and some emotional recovery time. You see in April i was supposed to have gotten married to my college sweet heart but he called the wedding off 4 hours before it was supposed to take place and told me he needed space. So my friends thought it would be a good idea for me to get away. Anyway on the cruise i met this Australian guy who was part of the cruise ships crew on the rock climbing wall he was an instructor.A romance ensued and well i am pregnant now. He is the only man who could be the father and i dont now how to find him?He gave me an e-mail adress but i lost it.
2006-11-22 02:23:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
He said he had family in New Zealand that he visited and i know his first name not his last and have no idea how to get in conntact?
2006-11-22 02:25:43 · update #1
you shouldn't have had unprotected sex with a guy you didnt even know! sorry, got no sympathy for ya.
2006-11-22 02:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by вℓαмє_¢αиα∂α 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would call the cruise line that he worked for and explain what he looks like..You must know his name so just ask if "blah" is around and that your his sister or girlfriend or whatever. I dont blame you honey Australian met are HOT and I give you 100% credit but yah your situation sucks...so just call the cruise line and see what they have to say...do you remember what the e-mail addy could've even been?? Good luck!
2006-11-22 10:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by rkonkin226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could contact the cruise ship and find out but hten he would most likely lose his job if they find out he was slepping with the passengers. If you want him as part of the babies life i would take the chance and call. if not don't bother him. I know it is wrong to say he never has to know but he dosen't. If you don't want his help or him to be a part don't worry about it. If you do call or wirte a letter to the cruise ship tofind him. Good luck with what you decide and good luck with the baby.
2006-11-22 10:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are pretty much on your own. I HIGHLY doubt the cruise line will give out personal information on their crew just because some lady called in and said she has his baby. I am pretty sure it is illegal for them to give you any of his information.
I think the only way you would be able to find him is to go on the same cruise and pray he has the same job. otherwise i don't think you are going to find some random guy who you only know his first name.
maybe you shouldn't have slept with some random guy and maybe you shouldn't have lost his email address.
you put yourself in this mess don't blame your bad breakup from another relationship. take responsibility for yourself and your horrible decision to have unprotected sex with a complete stranger!
2006-11-22 10:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off.....Congratulations on the baby!!!! second all id try calling the cruise place and seeing if they can help you out....did you take any pictures together? or anything like that? it should be easy as long as you can tell the date you went and that he was the rock climbing instructor...goodluck on finding him!!!
2006-11-22 10:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try contacting the cruise line for information, or do a people search and try to get his email that way/
2006-11-22 10:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by mpwife_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cruise line. Explain your situation. When you were on the cruise, where it was to, etc. Maybe they can help you locate him. Good luck.
2006-11-22 10:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Contact the cruise line or something, and good luck.
2006-11-22 10:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by frankmilano610 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this happened to my friend she met a guy in Hawaii and she never got any info expet that is name is Josh and that he's a freshman so we are still looking to see if he has a myspace.. she's being a total stalker... it's getting a little weird..
2006-11-22 10:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by Lor-the-Giraffe 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
sorry for your situation, good luck!
2006-11-22 10:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mom to Foster Children 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋