now she is pregnant but I am not sure that baby is mine. What should I do?
2006-11-22 02:15:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
kill her!
2006-11-22 02:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋
Well, if you do not remember, than alcohol (or drugs) must have been involved. Now to do the mature thing and be very supportive of her if she is saying the baby is yours. If you really do not think the baby is yours, you can have tests performed at a later date.
Hopefully, you are dating a girl who you can trust, who will not fabricate stories. If she is not trustworthy, than she has issues, and probably scared. She still needs morale support, but a negative paternity test will keep you from having a life-time financial commitment.
If you truly love the girl, than you will stay by her side. I suspect that by your question, you are very young and not ready for marriage, but if they baby is yours, you will need to do the right thing and be a father figure and provide support.
The two of you need to go and talk to a adult who you can trust, such as a priest, minister, or teacher to get guidance. You need to focus on having a healthy baby, and possibly putting it up for adoption if you are both too young.
2006-11-22 10:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by Kathy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a DNA sample taken when the baby is born and if the DNA matches urs than the baby is urs if not then u need to find out whos baby it is so u ALL can TALK about what happened and figure out how to raise the child in a safe home
2006-11-22 10:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by Betsy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is wait for the baby to be born and have a paternity test. I would suggest you be there for her during her pregnancy just in case it is yours. Good luck
2006-11-22 10:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if you haven't had sex with her ask for a dna test once the baby is born, because then, the only way that baby could be yours would be magic
2006-11-22 10:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol you dont remember....jeez i thought that was an excuse girls used to diss guys...if you dont remember then you proably didnt....wait til the baby comes out then get a dna@!!!!
2006-11-22 10:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
what?
Youre not sure if you had sex with your girlfriend? How are you not sure?
If your penis went in, babies come out. Its not rocket science...
2006-11-22 10:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋