Been trying to conceive for the past 3 months...Men please tell me your views on this...If you and your wife are trying to conceive...How often do you feel that you should be making love?...Also, do what are your beliefs? Do you feel that a child is a blessing and that it's God that will bless you with a child?
2006-11-22 02:13:58 · 5 answers · asked by $&$& 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I do believe that a child is a gift from God. Everything good comes from God. I think you should try to conceive at the most probable times for you (when you are ovulating) but would be very careful that one of you isn't trying to force it all the time. Don't let the act of trying to conceive be a wedge between you.
2006-11-22 02:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by Here Today 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best is to make love every other day to keep your sperm production going and eliminate the old and crippled.
The sperm
To conceive it best to save up your sperm 3 to 5 days. If the ovulation is usually about the 13 days after the start of the period, then start saving from day 5. On day 10 you can inseminate her a first time. On day 13 (after saving up 3 days) another time and on day 16 again.
As sperm can survive up to 72 hours inside a woman your cover the whole ovulation period this way as it may be a day or 2 later or sooner depending the period frequency and stress.
To make the womb less hostile use condoms the rest of the time, like that the female body will get her defenses down as she detect no treat when having sex with you. Sometimes the internal defenses gets too specialized in combating your sperm and sometimes regular partners don’t stand a chance.
Technical wise
Do it preferably doggy style so the penetration is the deepest and closest to the womb. After ejaculation stay inside turn her on her back on get a pillow or 2 under her *** so gravity give a helping hand. Try to stay half an hour lovingly interlocked and enjoy the intimacy.
Spiritually
Although I’m a atheist, I’m also a reiki practitioner. Most religions aside their political goals and personal enrichment on behalf of their believers do have the same base.
No matter your believe system, praying, channeling energy helps. A prayer and the best of intentions can only be beneficial and give that little something extra along with the love you share with your partner.
But as for most in life you got it in your own hands. Don’t seek refuge in a god’s will. Matter of fact there’s a Christian saying “God helps those who help themselves”. If you don’t do anything for high quality sperm, don’t eat organic, smoke, drink, eat junk food etc don’t blame anybody else then yourself. If you do your best you’re more likely to receive a divine intervention of any kind.
2006-11-22 13:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by linkador 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a man but if you are making love too much it will lower your sperm count every two-three days (Sperm live 2-4 days) will work. It is only bennifical during her fertile time. For most women that would be 3-4 days before and after ovulation. This can be tricky to determine for some women. I would recommend an ovulation perdiction kit. Unless your woman knows her body really well. It takes most couples a few months to concieve. If you have not been successful after about 6-12 months if you are young (20's), 6 months if you are your (30's) I would consult a physican. Try not to wear your self out and relax. Children are always a blessing.
2006-11-29 16:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by wesleyann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best time for you to conceive is when you are ovulating, that is PRIME! How often, is up to you and your partner. Keep in mind, it only could take once, but to be sure.........!
I feel that all life is a blessing and that conceiving a child is basic biology. It is God however; that blesses our child with a soul! It is also believed by many Philosophers that a child is born with a pure heart and not contaminated with bad thoughts or evil intent. It is us parents, teachers, peers, etc. that show them and teach them otherwise. Only a child knows that life is everlasting and destined to be blissful. To bad we all couldn't stay young and untainted! Good luck to you!
2006-11-22 10:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by shaprice1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife used the ovulation predictor kit, when it was positive, we would do it everyday for about 4 days straight. Yes, of course God provides all things to us, and a child is one of those things.
2006-11-22 10:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by HJ8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋