ok so theres this girl that i would do anything for and we went out like a year ago and have remaned good friends and she still has deep fellings for me which i kno because shes told me so but she has a bf that she likes alot and talks about all the time and she wont give me a
2nd chance because we had probs when me and her went out and b4 and i love her o death but i feel like im losing her to this other guy so should i just let her b happy nd still b good friends or do something else
2006-11-22 02:09:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if she claims she loves u, but wont break up with him for u then she is messin with ur head n is obviously not serious about anything
2006-11-22 03:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a strange city sometimes, and it has no two way streets. She either loves you or she doesn't. She has a boyfriend, you need to just continue to be a Friend, and maybe in the future, things will be different. You don't really want to be in a relationship with someone who can "love" more than one person at a time. She may really love your friendship, that is always a good thing to hang onto.
2006-11-22 02:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Hatem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Richard. As hard as this is going to be, you need to let her go. Have you ever heard the saying: "If you love something (or someone) set it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours. If it doesn't it never was". This is so true. I hate the fact that she tells you that she cares for you but continues to dote on her bf. Move on. You sound like a genuine, caring guy and there are plenty of girls that would love to have the opportunity to be around someone like you. Best wishes and may God watch over you!
2006-11-22 02:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by Pam C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello dear,
i am realli sorry to say this,
but i was the girl in a relationship lyk this
and it's not what you think, shes already made up her choice, she wants to be with the guy, not you, because she doesnt wanna hurt ur feelings cuz she cares about you. she'll break up from this guy, and then u'll think ur in, wen actually she's go out with sm1 else b4 u even get a chance,
these girls dont mean to lead people on or seem bitchy because they wont tell the guys the truth, but they want to feel luved, cuz she mite not b happy with herself,
awk i dont wanna ruin ur hopes, so i wont go on, but wen u realise and she does it again
e-mail me (baby_06pimpette06@yahoo.co.uk)
i hope i'm wrong and that she'll find she wants to be with you really.
plz tell me im being wrong with this one, because i want ya to be happy darlin.
but jus let her find what she wants to do, and stop telln her you really like her for a while =)
X_mary_X
2006-11-22 02:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not losing her. YOU LOST HER A YEAR AGO. unless, you have children together, then you have to see her for the benefit of the kids. stay away from her. if you stay close friends, and she starts sleeping with other men, all your doing is setting yourself up for hurt. let her be. move on. find another that will give you a chance. or do you want to be SANCHO, the other man? if you do, all your going to do is hurt 3 people instead of just yourself. in my opinion the only healthy solution is to get away, and move on.
2006-11-22 05:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by pillsropegun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cliche but follow your heart. Nothing feels better than knowing you love/like a girl and she likes/loves you back.
2016-05-22 14:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is to continue to be friends with her. She will either decide to give up the other guy to be with you or not. I'm sorry for your pain as there is nothing you can do to subside it and have her be with you. Continue through your friendship to let her know you care and want to be with her, however don't push.
2006-11-22 02:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by Elvira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, tell her that you know that you know you made so mistakes but if she's willing to try you're willing to work on them. Let her know that you don't want to rush her or make her feel like she has to choose between the two of you, you just needed to let her know how you feel before she made a decision to be with this guy.
good luck getting your girl.
2006-11-22 02:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by valshead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her how you feel and see what she says. If you had problems, like you said, maybe she feels it just won't work with you and it is better to be friends.
2006-11-22 02:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it may be for you, she is with him and not you. You need to realise this hun and stop thinking she would want to be with you, because if she did.. she wouldnt have a boyfriend.
2006-11-22 02:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋