hey everyone thnx for answering me but i have a HUGE problem! my friend liked this guy, a little too much, and well she lost her "innocence" and now she is pregnaunt, and shes in 7th grade! wut do i do? she like freaking out she isnt ready! i kno she isnt and i wanna try to be somewhat supportive and tell her it will be ok but i dont think it will. my mom doesnt want me to hang out w/ her anymore but she is my best friend, my mom says she is a bad influence, ok heres the worst part.....the father, theres a list of like 8 guys it COULD be if ya kno wut i mean! plz help! wut do i do?
2006-11-22 02:08:11 · 11 answers · asked by Kaylor 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Your post has a couple of unbelievable items. Your friend has a list of 8 guys that could be the father and she is in 7th grade?? That would make her 12 or 13 years old!! I'm not one to judge but it sounds like you girls need help badly. Talk to your friends parents and your mom about getting help for this girl. If you can't get any answers, go to your school counselor or Planned Parenthood. I can see your mom's point of view on this matter. Sex should not be the center of your world at this age. There may be some legal issues here depending on the age of the "fathers". The best thing you can do for your friend is to have her talk to the professionals that can give her options and help guide her into choosing the correct path for her. Hope this helps!
2006-11-22 02:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by zacksmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should seriously find a new friend.
Anyone who has sex with 8 guys in one cycle IS a bad influence.
If you're behaving in the same way and having sex at such a rediculous age, go to planned parenthood and get on birth control. Its free and your parents dont have to know.
Part of acting like an adult and having adult relationships, which is what sex is, is being responsible like an adult to either NOT get pregnant, or NOT have sex with anything that thrusts and jabs.
Its really sad about your little friend, its a shame that her parents have failed her so badly, and a shame that her baby will now have to suffer because of her actions.
But theyre her actions, and her choices, and you need to make sure you're not making the same ones. Leave her alone, she needs her parents now more than anything.
2006-11-22 02:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay thats kinda...contradicting because in the first part you say "she liked this guy a little too much and she lost her innocence" you dont say til the end that she went on a banging spree with everyone! Well we all get what we deserve and maybe this will teach her to be a lil more careful.
2006-11-22 02:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW hmm ok look she needs to get an abortion.. she has to i having a baby that young will destroy her body and it will make her so she cant have kids anymore... believe it or not my lil cousin is in 7th grade and her friend got pg and she's keeping it .. 7th grade i was shocked but now there is NO possibility that she cant have kids anymore... she needs to get it aborted (and i don't even believe in abortion) so when she is older and is ready to have kids she can... I'm so sorry about that...
2006-11-22 02:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
All I can say is it's a shame but such things, if adoption is a possible consideration I suggest she contact LDS family services they at least can promise a good home and a lot of support.
2006-11-22 02:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sid B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is way too big for you to handle, and quite honestly it's not your problem, it's hers. Be there for her for moral support, but learn from her and don't end up in the same situation.
She needs to talk to her parents or another trusted adult and she needs to get to a doctor asap. Her body probably isn't really ready to handle a baby and she could be in danger herself from it. Try to get her to talk to a grown up, quickly.
2006-11-22 02:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be the best friend u can be. When she has the child (if she does)try to tell her about the options. Tell her " I know you love this baby but I don't think your ready. " Tell her about adoption,. If she still wants to keep it tell her " If you think your ready, Ill help you with the baby. (Even if her parents r mad, they will also help with the baby. I hope.) Hope I helped!
2006-11-22 02:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. New Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both of you are young and that you are not ready for this news.. Maybe you can encourage her to call some hotlines... They are actually listed in some parenting magazines... Good luck!
2006-11-22 02:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by round face 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. All you can do is be a good friend and make sure she has some adults to help her out. I hope her parents know and are helping her. If not, you should encourage her to talk to her parents.
2006-11-22 02:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get an abortion and stop being a hussy.. I think you should both learn about sex education before you try to do anything..
but honestly I think this question is fake because you changed your story .. unless it was a gang bang how did she loose her innocence to all 8 guys
2006-11-22 02:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋