Given the fact that most borrowers dont return the borrowed item - If lending is such a bum deal and if borrowing means possibly loosing a friendship - why do people do it?
Checkout this quotation from Shakespears "Hamlet" http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/25480...
2006-11-22 01:55:14 · 8 answers · asked by vincegill 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is my motto...Never lend people money if you expect to get it back..
Alway s lend it like you will never see it again. then when they dont pay you back you wont get mad or loose a friend.
Tell your friend, I will loan you the money, just give it back to me when you can. A true friend will pay you back one way or another.
2006-11-22 02:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by multipure417278 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TO LEND: handy out regularly for a definite length of time. In different words, once you borrow something, meaning that somebody is giving something to you for a little while, with the expectancy of having it returned. TO BORROW: to take with permission regularly for a definite length of time. In different words, once you lend something, meaning which you are the only that is going to be giving the item to a different, with the expectancy of having it returned. EXAMPLES: Banks lend money. Libraries lend books. In a sentence: "My mom lent me some money, and that i could pay her returned quickly." you could borrow money from a financial employer to purchase a house or a vehicle. you could borrow books for as much as 4 weeks from libraries in England. as an occasion: "I borrowed some money off my mom, and that i could pay her returned quickly."
2016-12-10 13:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by vasim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends sometimes make the mistake of asking too much...even though they may be good friends they don't know how you will react to certain things.
I always trusted my best friend and moved country to live with her and eventually I moved because I felt she was asking too much of me and vice versa.....
If you hold your possessions and money with an open hand you will always be free of the problems that come from grasping it.
2006-11-23 03:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by jessieket04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only lend out your things to people you trust, you should know who you trust and who you don't, go with your instinct.
2006-11-22 02:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Maji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really hate it when i lend something then they just keep, but if my friend does i'll ask her if she wants it then i'll think about if i should give it to her
2006-11-22 02:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by Janna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should always lend as though giving ..
2006-11-22 01:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It,s human nature
2006-11-22 01:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOME PEOPLE DON'T CARE
THEY ARE THEAVES
2006-11-22 02:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋