I cant help it.It is just that i felt like i m accompanied and comfortable.Is it good to be like that?Do u think u like it?
2006-11-22 01:54:34 · 11 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Being clingy is not good. It will only hurt the relationship. You have to find a way to be comfortable in being alone and in tune with the other person's need for space and alone time. Otherwise they will begin to feel like you are smothering them and no matter how much they like you they will get sick of it.
2006-11-22 02:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the other person in your life doesn't get irritated and give up on you in the first couple weeks it happens, then you know, it will go away on its own as you two start trusting each other and building a better friendship. That is natural for some people...and for those people, the first two serious weeks of talking to each other and that happening, how it's handled, is how you know where you really stand and get a feel for much later on. Oddly enough.
Unless you are speaking of purposely clinging to people all day long every day of your life and getting mad if they even look at someone else to speak to? Then there is an issue you might need to outgrow.
2006-11-22 09:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can sympathize with you on that. I used to be that way but you have to make a conscious effort to control it. It's not good to be clingy because (1) it makes people uncomfortable and (2) it's harder to deal with if the relationship doesn't work out. Give a little space and maintain your own friends and life separate from the person you care about. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2006-11-22 09:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i tend to do that a lot, particularly in the beginning when it's more of an infatuation than anything. personally i think i have the inalienable right to express how i fell with disregard for the consequences, but that approach is often repulsive and offensive to the other individual. you can be like that, but certain things you have to keep to yourself, until the time is right. not everyone likes the impulsive type, even if they're that way themselves towards you ...
2006-11-22 09:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clingy is not good.......it can make a person feel smothered and crowded. Affection is much different than clingy. Affection shows the person u care about them and that they are important to u........but still gives them space.
2006-11-22 10:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate clingynes what you should do is find someone else who is clingy too.
2006-11-22 09:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
clingy is not good, everyone needs their space, but... you have to set limits and boundaries.
2006-11-22 09:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by yesssssssss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, everybody needs there own space.
2006-11-22 09:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 words....."personal space".......being too clingy is not a good thing sometimes.....
2006-11-22 09:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by NaeNae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ewww no......
2006-11-22 09:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋