I think I am the biggest person of all time! I am 12 years old, and I am 5'5 and I weigh 132 pounds. My friends tell me I am not fat, but, when your boyfriend starts calling you lard@ss, thats when you start thinking twice.Help me!!!
2006-11-22 01:51:57 · 14 answers · asked by Jessica P 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
sweetheart listen to your friends and dump the boyfriend ..hang in there
2006-11-22 01:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound JUST like my younger sister did when she was 12, and you are much taller than she was then. Judging by your weight and height, I would have to agree with your friends. You aren't fat, a little baby weight does not make you fat; you are thick, and by the time you're 16 or so you'll have a body like a brick outhouse, girl (my sister does). That's a very good thing. There are many people who don't feel that a girl needs to be thin to be fine. You have GOT to become one of those people, baby. You're 12, hon. When your cycle regulates you'll trim down; don't force it.
As for your boyfriend, he's a dick; if he didn't think once before he called you a name, why the hell would he make you think twice?
2006-11-22 10:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by anita.revolution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apart from reading peoples responces on here have you got someone you can talk too? A close friend, Teacher, your mum? If not, firstly I think your abit too young to be worrying about boyfriends. However this world is forever changing. Try talking to your boyfriend. Dont let your boyfriend or anyone change you. Only you can change yourself. If you really arent happy with your weight talk to your doctor or a teacher. Try and change your diet, and exercise more. My bestfriend has a problem with her weight. Shes 25 and thinks shes huge and it doesnt help her confidence when her family call her names. So I understand where your coming from. As for your boyfriend saying hurtful things to you, have you tried telling him how he makes you feel. If he wont listen or continues to hurt you get rid of him hes not a decent guy and you deserve someone better. Enjoy life without male pressure for a while your still young. Dont allow yourself to be thinking about dying! Dont quit, be brave and stand strong. I really wish you all the best in achieving your goals. You CAN DO IT just try xx
2006-11-22 10:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mystic Magic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lnsecurity is high when we are young. You are still very young to contemplate on such things. Years from now, you'll laugh at that silly thought and say to yourself, "why did l let myself be swayed by that jerk". Yes, he is a jerk. You're not, so stop yourself from believing you're fat because you weigh just fine. Your boyfriend is the problem not your weight. He's a waste of your time. Dump him.
2006-11-22 10:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 5'5 and weigh 132, then that is normal. You are not fat, he's just a jerk, lose him, and you'll feel alot better.
2006-11-22 09:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Maji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to him he is an asshole!!!! Sweetie you may want to get on a diet, just for about 3 weeks. A nutritional diet NOT a starvation!
2006-11-22 10:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to get rid of Mr. Mouth, you don't need that kind person in your life. You have got a lot of living to do, so get right at it. have fun, my guess you'll have a lot more fun when you dump the loser
2006-11-22 10:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think posditive about yourself. dont say you want to die because you have a lot more fun left of your live. be posative productive and polite to yourself. See ya later.
2006-11-22 09:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister is that age and almost that weight and shes not big so just get a new boyfriend he is mean
2006-11-22 14:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by my_heartlieswithin@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend. That's just mean. You can do better than him!
2006-11-22 09:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by F.A.Q. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋