i cut im dieing into my arms and an x on my lower arm and there are lines going down my side. give advice please
2006-11-22 00:45:50 · 22 answers · asked by kris 2 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Injuries
btw i already hate my parents, and i am not gonna talk to a damn cousnler. And i am not usally like this i used 2 b a very athletic grl and still am but don't know whats going wrong. When i cut myself i feel absouletly no pain.
2006-11-22 00:52:53 · update #1
why the hell would i want fans? I am not doing this to get attention, i do it because i need to kno im alive and not as dead as i feel
2006-11-22 00:54:21 · update #2
when i said red lines i meant i cut my self on my sides 2
2006-11-22 00:58:08 · update #3
carmelcutie40@yahoo.com
2006-11-22 01:24:55 · update #4
You are needed whether you feel that way now or not. My 15 yr. old daughter went through the same thing. One thing that has helped her is the book Cut, sorry don't know who the author is. You will get through this, it will just take time. I'm sure my daughter would love to talk to you if you need a friend right now, which it sounds like you really do. If you will post your email I will give it to her and you two can chat. I'm sorry you are hurting so much inside. One reason I can understand where you and my daughter are coming from is because I went through the same and had to deal with those really strong depressing emotions at a young age. I know it's hard but you can get yourself through this. I don't know if anyone has told you today or at all lately, but I love you as a person no matter who you are. We all need to hear that on a very regular basis.
2006-11-22 01:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by F.A.Q. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie...I know you don' t want to hear this, but you really need to get some help....you have some stuff going on with your life, and you need to figure out how to deal with out harming your self. By posting this, I am sure you don't like the way you feel right now, so why not give some therepy a shot? I am so sure that you will feel better about stuff and have no regrets on getting the help that you need. Just find somebody that is an adult that you feel comfortable talking to and ask that person to help you get the help that you need.
2006-11-22 04:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would recommend that you pray your way through this. I am sure that you might feel like you have no relationship with God, but try it, you will feel better. I am sure that you do not want to talk to your parents or a counselor. everyone needs religion, you need to find it, and find out whatever it is to you. Prayer works give it a shot . I will pray for you as well. Stop cutting yourself, if not for the sake of yourself, look in the logic of it, does it make sense to cut yourself??? Use your words instead, and say how you feel. are you breathing?? then you are alive..
2006-11-22 06:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kris, ignore the people putting you down and not taking this seriously, as it is very serious! I know you don't want to talk to your parents, but they NEED to know what you are doing. If you were my daughter, I wouldn't be mad at her, I would be scared to death for her!
Maybe you don't realize the seriousness of what you're doing? Even if you don't feel pain, you're still hurting yourself. I have a teenage niece who does this and she is getting help. If she can get help, honey you can too! If you can't tell your mom or dad, please go to the emergency room or urgent care immediately! Don't think, just drop everything and do it now.
2006-11-22 01:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to do the same thing and I did it to escape the emotional pain that I had. Then I went to therapy and it really helped me. You need to find another way of focusing your bad feelings. Maybe try jogging or working out when your upset. Or maybe you could take up a new hobby. Cutting yourself is unhealthy and it leaves ugly shameful scars.
2006-11-22 05:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if by "lines going down my sides" you mean red streaks or inflamed veins you probably have an infection in your bloodstream. You should clean your cutting tools more carefully before self mutilation. You need to go to a doctor pretty quick. Dont worry about a counselor they will point you towards the psych ward. Problem solved!!!
2006-11-22 00:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by loomis127 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this, but you need serious help. There are completely confidential hot-lines that will help you wonders. They should be in a local phone book, or use the operator. Whatever you do, DONT go suicidal on yourself.
2006-11-22 00:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it feels good but really try to stop because it is addicting as hell. use a rubber band. it doesnt give you the same satisfaction as cutting, and it actually does hurt rather than feel good, but it is better than nothing. if you still have urges use sewing needles ( and dont go really deep! just scratches!) because it can give you the same effect but it doesnt leave scars and you dont open veins.
2006-11-22 03:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by chikka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever I am feeling bad or hopeless, I help little kids to do something. Or I see a really exciting movie.
I know, it's not life changing advice, but it might help a little bit. Life does get better eventually, it really does.
2006-11-22 00:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by Chris P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, that wasn't a very clever thig to do! it's really dangerous to cut urself. my advice is to go see a councellor or speak to a parent about this...u have a problem
2006-11-22 00:50:06 · answer #10 · answered by Vote4Pedro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋