I have a friend who just met another woman and who really doesn't seem to like or want to hang out with me or our mutual friends. My friend is spending all her time with her and not her before this girl friends. When I call her to hang out with her, she's like I already have plans with this other girl. We used to hang out all the time and now it's like I am being pushed to the curb. Our mutual friends seem to think the same way about her always being with this one woman! Why is she blowing us off to hang with her?They are both married and have kids, and their kids and hubbies get along well, but does that mean she gets the right to only hang out with the other woman? It's not fair, and I am getting to the point, I dont want to try and be friends with her anymore. What do you think I should do? Ive told her I was not feeling like we are friends, but nothing has changed! help!please!
We are all women and we all used to hang out every weekend till
this other woman has like taken over!!
2006-11-22 00:45:33 · 7 answers · asked by sshhmmee2000 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To be blunt, maybe she is tired of y'all. JUST GIVE HER TIME AND SPACE. Is there a possibility that she is bi-curious? That may be what the problem is. If she does not come around soon, try talking 2 her and if tha does not work, you are better off without her.
2006-11-22 00:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though your friend is moving on--in the wrong direction. You can never have too many friends. She should not exclude old friends, but blend new ones in with old. All you can do is be there for her when the balloon breaks. Her new friend must be one of those who likes an exclusive friend and monopolizes all her time, etc. Eventually your friend will see the light and come back to her old friends--accept her back. Everyone makes mistakes.
2006-11-22 08:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe she wants this friendship to work with other girl. It is hard to find couples w/ kids. She might just be taking sometime for her family right now making new family friends. I would not stop being her friend just let her be & she will start missing you & come around. Keep inviteing her to things.
2006-11-22 09:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will soon find some time with her do not give up hope she will comearound.
you could invite the two of them out with you and the useal friends for drinks and a good time.
2006-11-22 08:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by cool cat2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest your friend is probably Gay that how you guys situtiation sounds but you need to leave her alone because eventually she doesnt want to hang out with you and your friends anymore so just hang out with your other friends because once her Girlfiend get tired of her i bet that she will call you and try to hang out so just leave it along.
2006-11-22 08:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by Tamia J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they probably have more incommon then yall do with her think about it they are both married and have kids husbands get along. ummmm THINK i think you might be just a little jealous
2006-11-22 08:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Kayla P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kind of wierd.
2006-11-22 08:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋