HELP what can i do my boyfriend of 15mths has a girl has a friend and for the past few weeks she has been?

Question

pasting horriable remarks about me for no reason i can think of i have allways been nice to her never said a bad word or anything like that so what can it be

i have tryed talking to her and she is jealious and trying to break us up even thought she has her own man

im not going to fight with her over this but if a have to a will at the risk of losing my boyfriend

Answer 1

Perhaps she is a bit jealous, she might fancy your BF? I would talk to your boyfriend about it ask if it is an issue with him, after all he is the most important thing not her. If he sees that it it bothering you then perhaps he will have a work with her, its probably better coming from him because after all if you have a word she is just going to go to your bf and say you were trying to cause bother.

I hope everything works out x

Answer 2

I think there are 2 possibilities:

1. Although she's just his friend she actually fancies him, and is jealous of you.

2. She's decided, for whatever reason, that you're not the right girlfriend for him

Either way, there's not much you can do other than be as nice as you can to her and hpe she stops it soon.

PLEASE don't complain about her to your boyfriend unless she gets really vicious - and even then it's a risk.

If they've been friends for a while he probably trusts her more than you right now. That will change if your relationship gets really serious, but not very many people would ditch a really good mate for a girlfriend. So don't force him to choose.

This is probably just a passing phase. If she's been fine for over a year and just started acting funny recently she'll probably get over it.

If she doesn't you may have to ask her what the problem is - but make sure you do this is a friendly and non-confrontational way.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Right, the best thing to do here is just get her by herself away from all other external factors, grab her by the hair and ram her face into the biggest turd that happens to be around. Whilst smearing her face around in the steaming log scream at her saying that if she posts anything else about you you'll belt her so hard she'll need a time machine to get back to the present day.

Im honestly do not advocate violence....very often, and if you could talk it through that'd be the best way obviously. However some people just have to be shown they cant get away with their bullshit.

Good luck!

Answer 4

the reason she is like that is because she is terrified that she is going to lose him to you, she knows that you are an important part of his life now, she doesnt want to be pushed out of his life and she is jealous as she has most probably always been the most important female in his life, she wil realise that he wil always be her friend no matter what, the sooner she realises that the better that way your life can get easier x

Answer 5

Your boyfriend needs to step in. This is more about him to her then you. He needs to demand she stop or they can not be friends anymore. If your boyfriend won't do that then he's essentially chosen her over you and you'll need to rethink the relationship.

Answer 6

Try talking to her. Maybe she is feeling like you arent treating your man right. Maybe she has the hots for him and is jealous...whatever it is...communication is key.

Answer 7

shes jealous,doesnt necessarily mean she wants your boyfriend herself but maybe shes just jealous of the fact her friend is happy with someone else

Answer 8

let her get on with it if she thinks she bothering you she will do it even more ignore her and she will get bored talk to her as well as she might feel neglected or pushed out

Answer 9

ask her what her problem is and talk to your b/f if she cant be civial to you ignore her and dont have anything to do with her

Answer 10

tell your boyfriend innit