He cheated on his x gf with me and then he split with her to be with me...weve split up 4 times and i told him that thats the end of it no more goin back and getting hurt...but friday night he emailed me telling me to text him asap! so i txtd him and asked him what was up and he replied are you single so i rang him and he told me that he was sorry for all the pain he made me go through and wants us to give it another go so i said ok but it your last chance...then he told his ex gf that i was txtin him randomly for no reason wen he emailed me 1st! so i told him i dint want him in my life even tho i love the guy to bits but hes denied sayin things to his ex i just dont know who to belive i love him to bits but im not 100% sure that he loves me the same way...i asked his best mate and she said that he is telling the truth cuz he wouldnt mess me around like that now i feel guilty for all the nasty things i said to him but i really love him and want him back but what do i do about his ex???
2006-11-22 00:13:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is kind of like a tennis game. He has problems with the ex He comes to You. Problems with You, He goes to the ex. This is a huge sign of insecurity. Some guys, not all, but some, think that it is o.k. to get in a fight with the present girl, say they are on a break, and in their mind they are free and clear to go be with another. Then they fight with them, take a break, and go be with the last, or the next. As long as everyone goes along with it, He has everything His way. Life is too short for so many problems, and so much drama. You have been given some really good advice here, by everyone, hope You take it. Just block His calls and emails, and look for a good Man. You deserve a good man, right? I tell My boys, You need to be the Man who lays His coat over the mud puddle for a Lady to walk over, not the Man who lays down and lets the Lady walk over You. That would apply to Woman as well.
Best Wishes
2006-11-22 00:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing really to say here, because the answer to your question is obvious, but you've made it clear that you aren't going to do the right thing. You should never fall for a guy who cheats on his girlfriend, first of all. Then, you shouldn't have gotten back together with him the first, second, third or fourth time. You shouldn't answer his text messages, and you cannot DO anything about his ex. This guy is a dog, and what are you talking about his friend said he wouldn't mess around with you like that? He already has! And if his best mate is a girl, he's probably f'ing her too. If you want him back, you've lost your mind.
2006-11-22 00:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Split up four times and you still want him back? You're a sucker for punishment and you'll deserve what you get in the longrun. What will you get in the longrun? Pretty simple to see with a track record like this.
in the meantime see if you can find some self esteem. It'll do you wonders.
2006-11-22 01:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you have to look at is why you have broken up four times. If you cannot mutually maintain a relationship then why are you together?
Then you have to understand what you love about him. He is not honest or he would not have cheated in the first place. You are not sure he loves you as you stated in your question. The two of you have troubles getting along, four brake ups. What is it about him that is worth all of this trauma?
Take care,
Troy
2006-11-22 00:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him if he does not truly love you. If he loves you so much he shouldn't cheat with his ex. He does not deserve you, someday you'll have someone better than him that is loyal.
Try to move on because if not, there would not be change and improvement in your life. Some people are afraid of change, but it is for the better.
I hope this helps~(Goodluck!)
2006-11-22 00:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by curious~me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, this guy is nothing but a cheater, you two have split up 4 times, that is enough, do not take him back because you are jsut going to split up again, he obviously keeps going from you to his ex, let her have the cheater. You fond someone who will treat you better because you deserve better.
2006-11-22 00:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater"
Go on with your life sweety...It's just a matter of time that you will break...This kind of things never get's better...Trust me I was you and I kept it as long as 7 years...I suggest that ifyou can't find the right man to threat you like a woman...MOVE ON...spare yourself with all the hurt...It will be tough, but in time it will heal and you'll find someone that will love you the way you deserve...and you DESERVE way better than that loser...
2006-11-22 00:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by $&$& 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a loser. Not worth your time and once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-11-22 00:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
move on! He is playing you hard!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-22 00:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋