Dear jb#1fan,
The important thing here is that you are 12 y/o. Liking some one is not as big a deal as you think it is when you are 12. Remember you are not getting married to this guy you like, you simply want to get to know him better to find out if you want to spend additional time with him. You may find out that he isn't really what you thought and may not like him or be around him in 2 weeks from now. So my first advice is to keep things in perspective and that will allow you to be more relaxed and be more of yourself.
People are really attracted to people that are calm and confident, so that's what you want to be. And the easiest way to do that is be yourself, don't pretend to be someone or something that you are not.
So if you are interested in this guy, just ask him if he would like to do something, just like you would ask your good friend. He may be too shy, or may not know you are interested. You will appear very confident by doing this. Your request can be as simple as drinking a soda at recess or after school. Going on a short walk, watching the clouds in the park, or anything else you like to do. Remember stay in your comfort zone of who you are and what you like.
Be happy and have a blast! This also makes you more attractive to others. You will find many wonderful people that you like. Best of luck to you in finding well adjusted people more often than not.
2006-11-22 00:22:48
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answer #1
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answered by Bullwinkle 4
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try 2 act that u love someone else n try 2 make him jeaolous
talk 2 other guys when he is around
talk bout other guys with him
compare him with others
this will really mak him jealous!
if he feels it then he`ll admit definately!
2006-11-22 07:49:28
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answer #2
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answered by loveprem17 1
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Let him know you like him in the best way you can think of and see what happen! Time will tell!
2006-11-22 07:48:01
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answered by ? 5
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play hard 2 get 4 a while, he'll cam o' chocolates n' roses 4 u.
2006-11-22 07:50:09
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answered by Another face in the crowd 3
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Smile increses your face value and credibility
2006-11-22 07:49:18
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answered by Anonymous
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i hate when that happens.....dont you wish live was as easy as wacthing tv?lol
2006-11-23 22:05:06
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answered by just_a_girl 2
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invite him for dinner..... cook something special....
2006-11-22 07:47:32
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answered by bugi 6
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