Just a general question, is there anyone in your life that you could tell absolutley ANYTHING to, and you know it won't go any further?
Mine is my Hubby.....I tell him anything, little everyday problems etc..and he's always there for me!!
Got some really good mates too, but I feel like i'm being judged when I talk to them, I have my opinion on things, and I speak my mind.....some people don't like that!!
My husband doesn't judge me......which is one of the many things that I love about him!!
2006-11-21 23:22:03 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This isn't a question as much as it is an opinion poll. You are looking for people to commend you on your success in finding both a partner and a best friend in the same person. You want them to share their opinion as well as their experience. My wife is my best friend. It makes for 31 years of happy marriage. This is a rare occurrence that you also have. Enjoy it and good luck.
2006-11-21 23:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No there is nobody in my life. I kind rinse my thoughts out on the Internet like a puppet master. Of course my 13 year old dog is a great listener but his vocabulary is limited to his needs and desires. You are lucky if your husband doesn't judge you. I never try to judge anyone and I believe a person can voice their opinion without being too judgmental. I have to drive a long distance to work and during my travel time I don't use the phone, I plan my days and nights while I drive. By the time I get home I have a pretty good idea as to what I want to write on my list. This weekend I have four days off, so I have a pretty good sized list of things I need to complete. As far as I am concerned it is the best way for a single person to survive.
2006-11-21 23:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by snowstalker06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only people you can tell absolutely anything to without being concerned about judgement, are complete strangers.
With strangers you can tell them your side of the story, not have to worry in the slightest about whether or not the conversation will end up getting back to someone who it shouldn't and if you don't like any of their responses then it doesn't matter - they don't know you, they don't know the full situation and as you are unlikely to see them ever again it doesn'ty matter if their opinion of you is ruined forever and any opinion on anything need never effect you again.
Lx
2006-11-21 23:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best mate ... i can tell her anything and i know she won't tell anybody else...she will advice me and give me opinions and most of all she is always honest with me which i love...
if i ever need to just get something out i find it really great to write it down...almost like writing a letter to myself...it's great to keep it and then later on in the future to just look back on it and reflect upon it and see the changes that has happened since you wrote the letter.
2006-11-21 23:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a best mate i can tell her anything and she would nether judge me as i never do anything that would result in someone judgeing me as i think about things that i do too much well maybe a bit too much. But thats really nice it warms my heart that you have a husband like that it sounds like a great marridge and your very lucky. xxx
2006-11-21 23:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell my bf most things but not everything, I write a lot of things down to get them off my chest then srew them up and put them in the bin.
2006-11-21 23:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by kate 0504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did use to tell things to people....like personal things, but i found it always ended up getting out no matter who i told!
unfortunately none of my friends can be trusted with a secret and the only person i know who can is me!
2006-11-21 23:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by DEMON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very lucky, I have my other half, my family and three amazing girl friends, none of whom have ever judged me, and have always been there, through good and bad.
2006-11-21 23:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Pop (Dad) I trust him he offers the best advice is nearly always right, we are very similar... but he has always been there for me even when I mess up. I Love Him
2006-11-21 23:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and my sister know me like an open book.
2006-11-21 23:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋