thers this girl at school im prettier and more popular than her. but im not preppy she is, im a punk and she makes fun of me she calls me weird and gothic and shes tells everyone that i worship the devil and stuid stuff that isnt true. and half the time i can see her pointing at me and she waits till im like 2 freaking feet away from her before she says something bad about me. To where i9 can hear her. What do i do?
2006-11-21 23:21:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thers this girl at school im prettier and more popular than her. but im not preppy she is, im a punk and she makes fun of me she calls me weird and gothic and shes tells everyone that i worship the devil and stuid stuff that isnt true. and half the time i can see her pointing at me and she waits till im like 2 freaking feet away from her before she says something bad about me. To where i9 can hear her. What do i do?She makes fun of a bunch of other people at school too.
2006-11-21 23:38:04 · update #1
She makes fun of a bunch of other people at school too.
2006-11-21 23:38:20 · update #2
Sandra, you have some great advice in your other answers. I will add my 2 cent twist to them. I think it is hard to totally ignore someone when they are either speaking directly to you or intentionally so you will hear. Here's my advice:
1. Keep your cool and remember she has issues and as a result is attacking you... DON'T you fall into the same trap of poor behavior. That will be one point to your credit.
2. Try repeating to her what she said. That has a way of making a stupid comments obvious to everyone. Example: Did you just say that I worship the Devil? Then just look at her sternly and silently with disapproval. Whether she responds or not just add, "You must really have some serious issues spreading lies like that about other people, I feel really sorry for you." I guarantee she is in pain, that's why she is saying mean things to/about you. She does this to try and ease her pain, make her feel better. She just doesn't realize that her approach is not the way to ease her pain.
3. Maintain your composure and confidence in yourself and who you are. Recognize disparaging comments such as hers for what they are, desperate attempts to feel better from her own pain and issues of inadequacies. If you look at her like that you should find that you are no longer angry at her but, pity her and feel sorry for her pathetic condition instead. Maintaining your calm composure, 2 more points for you.
This is the truth. Good luck.
2006-11-21 23:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by Bullwinkle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maintain your cool and patience . Read and memories some jokes and use them regularly . You will beat her in your popularity within no time . Remain confident about your look and behave , also practice to ignore her bad and sad gestures .Good luck .
2006-11-21 23:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by your noon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...she should know that different people has different styles. All people are not same u know. I don't think cave man still exists now and they had their own style too, get it? It don't amtter who is preety and all, as long that person has good personality. and ya...next time, tell her that..mind her own business.
2006-11-22 00:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by kams2999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her and if she's making too much of a fuss, laugh at her and truly, she will look stupid, even give her the finger.
2006-11-21 23:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 06:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE her.......Just live your life....be who you are....if you are comfortable with yourself and proud of yourself then who cares what she says about you....be the bigger person and just continue doing your thing,,that will hurt her more than anything else that you could say or do....good luck
2006-11-21 23:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laugh at her. She's obviously extremely jealous of you and doesn't want anyone else to notice that you're prettier than she is.
2006-11-21 23:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is disease which a good ol azz whoopin can cure. but if u aint the aggressive type as i am i say ignore her and keep doin what you do. the world is full of hate its up to us to stop it or join in.
2006-11-21 23:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by NONAME 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ignore her it shows how low and inmature she is and shows how mature you are to let her know it doesnt bother you and then she will feel dumb b/c she will find out that she was wrong about you along with everybody else
2006-11-21 23:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by yours truly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u know shes behavin so dumb n childish why bother.
be glad ur not her.
it may be tough ignoring her ,but dont let her comments ruin ur day.
all d best.
2006-11-21 23:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by bianca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋