my cousin is always slating other people calling them names spreading gossip that is never true when its her who has been unfaithful and had a child and passed it off as her husbands i no i gossip sometimes dont we all but it seems shes determined to make other peoples lifes hell by spreading nasty rumours about people
anothe thing when it comes out that shes the one who said it she twists it so it doesnt look like shes done anything wrong
WHATS HER PROBLEM
2006-11-21 22:57:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have come to the conclusiopn not to bother with her but now shes started saying things about me what should i do shes driving me mad i feel like opening a can of whoop *** on her
2006-11-21 22:58:45 · update #1
Tell her if she doesn't shut her cakehole you'll tell her husband the kid isn't his.
2006-11-22 02:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her,with an audience of people she's been making up stories about,and people she told those stories to. She won't be able to worm her way out of it when faced with everybody. She needs to understand that NOBODY will like her or trust a word she says if she doesn't change her ways.
2006-11-21 23:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems nasty. I would threaten her to change her ways...you know secrets about her, she should be careful who she starts trouble with especially if its you. Shes probably reacting this way due to her own insecurities, maybe she sees everyone else as being so perfect and wants to feel better by trying to make them look bad.
2006-11-21 23:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by herbal ashtray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really seems like jealousy to me, perhaps she is an insecure kind of person. She needs a hobby perhaps to keep her nastiness in check and focus on something else
2006-11-21 23:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by tizzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes insecure, and immature. tell her exactly what shes like and then stay away from her. that way you dont get inolved in her gossiping.
2006-11-21 23:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to tell her you know what shes doing. Give her a few home truths, maybe she will think about it and stop
2006-11-21 22:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Scottish Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not fully satisfied at home. Therefore, she comes out with nasty tactics.
2006-11-21 23:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by pretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anyone who knows you and knows her will know who to believe. Don't bother with your ***** of a cousin. Truth will out.
2006-11-21 23:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probly just heaps insecure. just show her the way, be nice and try to be a good example to her
2006-11-21 23:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by girlbleha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever it could be. You can simply ignore her weak points and behave gently.
2006-11-21 23:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by ravindran_kc.alhadhrami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋