people have sed its a teenage phase which i think it is, when its gone im all happy thinking its gone but then i wud be bk a couple of days lata, i av an amazing girl friend with sex wid her good, im trying hard to get rid of this phase but can any1 tell me how long phases can be, thnxs
2006-11-21 22:16:16 · 16 answers · asked by sam l18 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
there is really no answer to how long phases can be its jus a part of life sometimes they can be for a days,weeks,months, and maybe year but the point is is that they dont last forever so just get through it the best way u can and try not to think about it so much that always helps
2006-11-21 22:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by ki-ki 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whether this is a new thing or has been going on for ages and only now are people being honest about it I don't know but this is quite a common occurance. As a cultural student I could point to things like fashion and the media are starting to objectify men's bodies and image the way we used to reserve only for female bodies. When people are surounded by images of David Beckham or George Clooney and are encouraged, tod subliminally to look to them for fashion advice, health and how to live their life even straight people can find their feelings confused as they're encouraged to look at other men. Sometimes this goes away entirely or just diminishes to the point where it causes no anxiety or desire to act upon it, both of which are entirely normal.
There is also the chance you might be bi-sexual but this would take a lot longer to discover and in no way could be answered by people on here.
2006-11-22 06:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by jleslie4585 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U r what's called having Bi-curious thoughts and emotion's. Seeing others of ur same sex intrigues u and turns u on. Normal for some weird for others. U may want to play out ur fantasy so that u can be over it once and for all or find ur self and admit that u r gay, or Bi-sexual. There r many men like u or r half in half out the closet. Make up ur mind one way or the other or both there r girls who love Bi-sexual men and wouldn't have it any other way.
2006-11-22 06:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry love, I would love nothing better than to say its just a phase, but I think its more that you have the ability to be bi-sexual and there is nothing wrong or unnatural in that. Lots of people will tell you otherwise, but follow your own instincts and your heart. It is your life, enjoy it, be happy.xx
2006-11-22 08:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by Raymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called temptation and it does go away. Just imagine the worst that can happen if you do give in. Just don't be critical of others who have surrendered, their path is now twice as long.
2006-11-22 06:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get rid of it baby, be grateful for it. Most of the world is oriented one way or the other. Thank God that she made you capable of enjoying both! Go with it!!
2006-11-22 08:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to all of us my friend. Only very few accept the fact and fewer go on to realise their fantasies
2006-11-22 08:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get feelings towards guys and you're sleeping with
your girl, then your gay.
It's time to come out of the closet.
How can you turn away from punani?
2006-11-22 06:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jonno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Bi male and trust me everyone goes through these stages.
2006-11-22 08:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by CT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps its a "phase", how many of us have heard that one lol.
2006-11-22 07:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋