I need advice I dont know what to do,?

Question

I have been going ouy with this guy for 6 months and found a letter from this girl who is in prison (My boyfriend has already told me about her and they are just friends) in the letter from her it suggests that my bf is intending to split up with me (he went to see her 2 weeks ago). However when I confronted him and asked if he wanted to finish he said no and that he was perfectly happy and if he ever thought about finishing he would tell me and wouldn't prolong it. There have been no signs that have changed our relationship and he is still very affectionate with me. what should I do? I cant ask what the letter means otherwise he will know ive been snooping.

Answer 1

I would have to tell him that I have read the letter, Apologise for the fact that I was snooping but I would have to confront him and ask him what she means otherwise you are not going to get it out of your head.
You take that chance when you snoop through other peoples things you find things that you don't like and it drives you crazy, I'm not condemning you cos Ive done the same thing but I would have to own up and bring the subject out IN the open.
Good luck, and remember he might have said something meaningless to her and she has took it in the wrong context.

Answer 2

if i was you i would ask him if anything has Eva happened with him and this girl and ask him 2 b honest wiv u,it could just b that this girl has got feelings 4 Ur fella and that he may not want 2 hurt her u have got 2 ask him or it could cause big fights between u 2 and u don't want that do u??....because it sounds like 2 me that summing has happened before because y would she b writing 2 him and asking him 2 leave u?? it could b true he may want 2 b and love u...but there has 2 b trust 4 it 2 work out 4 u both keep Ur chin up

Answer 3

Try and forget about the letter, he's given you his answer, either believe or dont. if u dont then u cant trust him very much and thus might as well end it yourself! maybe she was wish-ful thinking and was hoping he will dump u for her maybe.

maybe this is a harsh way of realising that u shouldn't snoop!

Answer 4

Hi,,,, hmm,,, even though it was a accident you found this letter,, you should be aware of the contents and know that something might be in the makeing.... but,,, if he is sincere with you, and you should tell if he is loving ,,,you will know how he thinks..

good luck

Answer 5

You can ask your bf that what's his purpose to speak with her.
I supposed that he'd met her for a long time.This is very tangle situation,but you can trust your yourself for this point.
Make decision is this situation have reached a delicate point.
You have to speak with your bf frankly about split up.
Everything is culminating in your relationship.If it's stable no one can change this situation

Answer 6

maybe he does want to break up with you....anyway girl this whole thing doesnt sound too good. him visitng her and she writing a letter to him..kind of getting intimate i guess.....'

watch out babes...he might turn the table on you....

Answer 7

eeeeeeeh why would he want to stay with a woman whos in prison ! dont tell him but if he tried to hurt u someday LEAVE

Answer 8

write to her, ask her what is going on or visit her, not nastyness ask her what yr b/f has been saying-then confront him

Answer 9

without trust the relationship is doomed anyhoos....ask yourself...do you trust him and therein lies the answer.

Hope it works out.

Answer 10

just leave it you should not of been snooping