i am finding i am always angry with my partner we fight like so much more now im pregnant i know i start it all the time i love him with all my heart and i know it hurts him when im angry any suggestions how i can control this anger?
2006-11-21 21:41:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Its your hormones it will pass you just have to tell him what you feel about everything and whats bothering you he should understand and if he doesn't make him it will get better your just going threw allot right now and he doesn't understand because hes a man and he has no idea how it feels to be pregnant and it probably feels like your going threw it by yourself just talk to him about how you feel
2006-11-21 21:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Tennesseegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him tell you when you start something, and don't get mad... take a deep breath, and know he loves you. You have to be careful because once you have a baby, this could turn for the worse with you both getting very mad at each other. It's a lot of work, and if your relationship isn't strong, it could tear you apart. My husband tends to flip out when our son cries- he has reason because our son was very colicky the first 2 and a half months... then the teething was almost the same-other than that, our son was the happiest baby ever-and is now too... Anyways, my husband doesn't deal with it very well... and isn't patient at all... I am... so when he gets that way, I have him take a walk, tell him I love him, and if he needs to, leave for a little bit instead of getting angry. This really helps us- that way I don't get mad at him as well. And we've stayed strong...it gets easier as they get older- my son is now 13 months old...and can still be difficult at times because they can't talk to tell us what they need. Goodluck!
Hope this helps some... it's tough I know.
2006-11-21 21:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by m930 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I read your question it was just as well me telling it. I am 100% the same. I don't kno why I am doing it. Sorry to say, but by blaming the hormones during pregnancy is not the answer. You say you are always like this and now that you are pregnant even worse. When you feel like you are going to bite his head of for NO reason just say to him "I just need to be alone for 10 minutes." If he asks why and I promise you he will, just say that you are very irritated and you are scared that you might bite his head off, so you rather want to go and cool off.
This is what I do these days and it works. I am 8 weeks pregnant so I know how you feel.
Good luck and just remember, when you freak out and stress, so does baby.
2006-11-21 21:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 08:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realise that your hormones are going crazy while you are pregnant and it is them that cause your fuse to be shorter than usual.when you feel like you are getting cranky walk away from him and take 5 deep breaths, this will give you a moment to think before you speak & may prevent you saying something that could start a fight.explain your frustration to your partner (& tell him in advance about the walking away bit so he knows to give you a moment to yourself) men can be surprisingly unaware of the effect hormones can have on women. make sure you never go to bed on an argument - if you have fought and you started it apolagise.
2006-11-21 22:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by chocaholic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well normally when i get angry with someone i just leave it in my head then i just take a little walk round the block or something as i have a very stressful life then i do it all the time but it really helps, plus i have scars from my girl so i wish she does the same, but unlike me you probably wont hit poles and that to releive it, another is to just go out the front or back and have a ciggi but you cant cuase you are pregnant.
2006-11-21 21:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Kid Fro$ty / $up3rman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least not last, try to make sure that you are patient enough, pretend as if you are not hearing anything that makes you angry, tell yourself that it is non of your business. Do not walk away when someone talks to you as it is so rude to do so. Just respond in a way that you are ok to say and remember to hold yourself from being "overreacted".
2006-11-21 21:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by Kethya Chin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my story at the moment too. I think because I am pregnant and so completely tired and hormonal that I don't even realise I am doing it. I tell my partner to let me know when I am doing it so I can calm down.
2006-11-21 21:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by Hanky 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't mean to do this, it's the hormones- they really are powerful things that leave us lacking control...
remember to start each day with a hug and tell him you love him...he will understand.
2006-11-21 21:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you realize you start it all the time, apologize to him, and explain it's the pregnancy hormones that make you fly off the handle.
2006-11-21 21:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by TaureanAngel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋