There are so many cases of teachers punishing kids too hard, being too rude...when we parents complain, our kids are singled out, exploited, given preferential treatment, less grades than the kids actually deserve...What's the solution to this? I am not saying all teachers are like this..some teachers are real gems..
2006-11-21 21:18:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Teaching
Hello Friend!
Since I am a teacher I will have to say that most of the teachers punish the kids for their misbehaviour only. If the teacher gives them some homeworks, they don't take any care to do them. Kids are not the enemies to a teacher. The teachers want to make them perfect in all kinds of activities. Only the parents have to guide their kids about the noble profession of the teachers who are responsible for the future development of the kids.
2006-11-25 20:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by BEVAN 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try to adopt the 'other' approach. Instead of cmplaining, ask the teacher how yuor child is doing in the class. Mention that he seems not to be doing so good in the class. Tell the teacher that the child praises them an their method of teaching and tries to follow everything and yet seems not to be doing well. Can the teacher help you out in pointing out the exact problem with the child. Use tact. Sometimes, if a teacher is stressed, they may shout on a child for no real fault of his or her and then when the parents grumble, they feel insulted and feel as if it is the child who brought this hostility on them. But if you praise him and tell him that the child appreciates his efforts at teaching, may be he feels more responsible towards the child and try to pay more attention to them. Perhaps that helps. Yet, if the punishments are too harsh, report the teacher to the Principal and if that does not work, change the child's school.
2006-11-21 21:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why is it you assume the kid is blameless? Many parents seem to believe their child is always a "little angel" who can never possibly be at fault. That is almost never the case. There are at least two sides to any story, but many parents seem to believe only what their own child tells them. Remember, kids lie. Get all the sides of the story before you make up your mind about anything.
If teachers seem rude, it is often because the parents approach them in a confrontational, adversarial manner, instead of trying to work with them to reach solutions. Politely ask your teacher what you can do at home to help solve the problem, and then frequently check with both your child and the teacher to see that progress is being made.
Finally always expect good behavior of your child in every setting. Don't tolerate bad behavior at home, and let your child know that bad behavior at school will also be punished at home.
2006-11-22 00:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by dmb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Solutions:
1) Just track where tha kids of such teachers are studying, Rest you know, no need to tell.
2) There is always a higher authority, complaint them about the same.
3) Choose an appropriate school for your kid and give your kids the confidance to come up against any such incident.
2006-11-21 21:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by Vicky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sick of parents who think that their kids are perfect angels all of the time. Many kids act up in school because they can get away with it and/or their friends are doing it. I see so many parents that believe that their kid never lies. Kids lie A LOT and they know if they have ****** parents who will believe them. I hate to break it to you, but your precious little 'angel' is anything but. Try actually believing a teacher once in a while...Trust me, they do NOT like complaining about anyone's child but have to in order to be able to control their class and do their job.
2006-11-24 04:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by cammie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the adults are the real cause of the problems, the innocent children become the victims of our misfortunes and misundestandings.
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2006-11-24 04:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Analyze this objectively. Sometimes the kid is really at fault. When they know that their parents will protect them, they will take everything for granted. That makes everyone's job difficult!
2006-11-22 03:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by ready to fly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start your complaint at the top anonymously by calling school district individual in charge of all staff!!! They will call someone under them and then someone from their office will notify principal.Since complaint call comes from school district office,then principal will (should) listen and then in fear of a second call ,principal will seriously tell teacher of the complaint...teacher willnot know who complained...niether will principal!
2013-10-11 17:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by sindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them solve the problem by themselves, if ur a parent in the middle, then don't take any sides, ur child should learn to deal with everything
2006-11-21 21:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sellect good schools for your kids.
2006-11-21 21:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by vinisha v 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋