I've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for 5 months now. We don't have sex that often because our schedules are completely different. But I'm worried that since I've had unprotected sex and didn't get pregnant, that I'm not fertile
2006-11-21 20:51:24 · 9 answers · asked by Wendy G 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
It could happen........But it definitely should have already happened. You sound like you so want a child....I hope he does too.
2006-11-21 20:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You know what... I thought the same thing, my friends also thought the same thing... BUT honestly its all in perfect timing... wtih my one friend after her and her husband got married, when they decided they would try to get pregnant, they used an ovualtion kit and boom first time, they got pregnant, my other friend and I tried for exactly 3 months... we got pregnant on the 3rd month of trying.... we are pregnant at the same time now.... SO it seems as though getting pregnant is easy but really its not for some.... it doesnt mean you are not fertile.... my friends and I had unprotected sex as well many times, many months.... really, its all about perfect timing.... but also, if you don't want to get pregnant with that said, of course it might happen unexpectedly one of those times.... like I said it took my husband and 3 months of "trying".... so its not so automatic.... but I am sure you are fine... and if you are trying to have a baby, then I suggest an ovulation kit... it worked for both my friends... my husband and I didnt use one and we just got lucky.... but don't worry a lot of people think the same thing... I myself, and both of my friends... so take care... and whatever your goal is good luck!!! :)
2006-11-22 03:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kara K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As stated by you, you don't have sex that often hence you need not conclude that you are not fertile. After prolonged sex for a longer period would prove whether you are infertile but it can also be the case with your boyfriend.
2006-11-21 21:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by rafiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt anything is wrong me and my fiancee had unprotected sex for 5 years useing the pull out method..I eventually got preg in june but had a misscar in july...we are trying for another baby now hope im preg this month:)
2006-11-22 01:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you having sex around ovulating date. to check when you ovulate you can go to www.mymonthlycycles.com
maybe you should do a check up. once i heard that a simple infection ( which sometimes you don't even know that you have) can stop you from getting pregnant.
please don't jump into congulations. this doesn't mean that you are not fertile. a doctor can only confirm it.
Good luck
2006-11-21 20:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
knowing your circle helps a great deal...you stand a better chance of getting pregnant if you make love around your ovulation i.e about two weeks after your monthly flow good luck
2006-11-21 21:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your probably fine just keep at it practice makes perfect!
2006-11-21 20:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by Boondocksaint 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you asked yourself if you want to get pregnant, because willpower probably is what is causing your infertility. if you want to concieve and you are still not pregnant then i'll advise you to see your obstetrician.
2006-11-21 21:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by bibi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
chinese sayings,"it's all in the butt... the bigger the more fertile"
2006-11-21 21:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jadess 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋