I have met people who are great but who are butt!!! I would not be able to stay with someone like that, how could you be happy with someone like that thrusting on you for the rest of your life?
2006-11-21 20:50:31 · 46 answers · asked by jodie c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no i couldn't, i've had a couple of uglies, urgh.
never again, i like my girls, but not the butt ugly ones.
2006-11-21 20:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sorry to say Hun if this is how you feel about people who may look a bit of putting to you or not in your standards then why would you be interested in them in the first place?
I am sick and tired of people judging men and women on looks and there standards, isn't it in side what counts!
And not them looking "Ugly" as you put it.
I think you could be a shallow person to base ''thrusting'' on looks as if the person doesn't appeal to you why go out with them in the first place?
Unless you play with peoples emotions?
You wont be happy and they will be defiantly not happy and leaving with less self esteem of them selves than they came to you in the first place.
So be fair and stay away from people who cant help being different!
Didn't the ugly duckling turn into a handsome prince!!
Didn't the toad get kissed by a princess then turned into a prince as well!!
See what I am saying...
Looks are decieving and not everything should be based on looks if they have a nice personality or are able to emotinal care for you.
Gee I wonder why there are so many unhappy single people out there.
I had a couple of guys on 2 differant occassions who looks weren't the best but gee they were good in bed and the most caring bloke's I ever met..
Why arent I with them now because I thorght they could do better as I thorght I wasn't pretty enough for them....
Can't turn back the clock..Pitty.
2006-11-21 21:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be attracted to someone in some way or another to be with them, otherwise there will be no 'spark' and not that much thrusting! Sometimes someones personality can make them more attractive or more ugly in peoples eyes so certain people may grow on you. But if someone really is 'butt' then you should probably leave them to find someone else 'butt' and just keep them as a friend.
2006-11-21 20:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess my question to you is Have you ever fallen in love with someone based on their personality?
My first love, I thought he was hideous when I first met him. The little animal gopher came to mind. Not to mention that he had long hair and looked dirty. But then a few years later, we started spending time with each other and I really grew to love him. I didn't want to spend time with anyone else. His personality and charisma made him sexy. Sadly, we broke up-cause he was a wee bit suicidal and eventually took is life. It's not just about looks. Sure looks matter, but they are not everything. And as for the sex-sometimes the ugly ones are the ones that are best. I'm mean really, do you really want to spend the rest of your life with some one you find good looking but can't please you? I'd rather have a fat toad thrusting up against me and giving multiple orgasms and pleasing and stimulating my mind than to just have a pretty picture to look at. But that is just me and I'm proud of it!
2006-11-21 21:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by apesee 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
U stay pretty not for life.
Sooner or later u turn out into a flabbery airbag that has sagged down and that kind of stuff.
The real liking or say love towards a person allways remails the same for ever, immaterial of how u look like - Now of After
vikram_s_bhatt@yahoo.co.in
2006-11-21 20:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by Vizz_up 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think that is a very shallow attitude to have? It sucks that you feel that way! Maybe some guys find YOU ugly - how would you feel if you didn't get dates because of that, when in fact you are a really nice person inside! (although I have reservations on that one!)
Someone who is ugly to you - is handsome to someone else. Tastes differ. But I would try change my outlook on life if I were you, or you will end up with no-one who likes you!
2006-11-21 20:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's the whole package that counts, one persons ugly is one persons beautiful. If you don't find someone attractive then whats the point of being with them? Why settle for second best, everyone deserves better. And all you people who answered who think you're ugly - get real - you are beautiful and once you see it then other people will too!
2006-11-21 21:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by Tracy M 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I believe u r not ugly. Suppose some misfortune makes u ugly, say a car accident. Else suppose a person whom u like becomes ugly what wud u do? Desert him. Please try to understand that physical attraction is the first one to catch ur attention but in due course of time, u start knowing the qualities of head and heart and then his/her looks do not matter at all.
2006-11-21 21:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt be with an ugly person in the first place cos im not attracted to them, but what I find ugly is different to anyone else.
2006-11-21 21:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God! You are gonna get it in the neck for asking this!
The person dating the ugly person doesn't see them as we would because they know the person.
I heard this saying "Beauty is skin deep, but ugly goes right to the bone!"
2006-11-21 21:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know i really think you are being a little narrow minded and shallow... and without looking at your profile you are showing you age... in time you will realise that looks are not the be all and end all... in time looks fade.... what the hell are you gonna do then!!! divorce!!! have an affair.... good grief.... whatever next...
Would you cancel your wedding if you future hubby had a wart on his nose!!! (no of course not!!! mind you if you say well yeah duh... you really do need to grow up)
2006-11-21 21:20:20 · answer #11 · answered by Cat ( " , ) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋