2006-11-21 20:35:35 · 5 answers · asked by Dack J 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
maybe you have'nt come out yet. but seriously it's a fact of life that many people of both sexes are bi sexual. you'll have to decide for yourself what to do.
2006-11-23 03:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by briangimma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid that you are not alone mate. I have a married friend who told me the very same thing about 2 months ago. When I asked him for more details he said that he was attracted to guys at school but had very little male on male contact and is still curious as to what "full" sex with a guy would be like. After assuring me he was not hitting on me, he was at pains to stress how much he loved his wife, but couldn't get these "urges" out of his mind and it was tearing him apart.
I really didn't know what to say, being such good friends with him and his wife. In the end I could only suggest that possibly he was bi sexual and maybe he should meet up with another guy, but ultimately that was entirely his decision. To date he hasn't mentioned it since, but he doesn't look happy at all. I wish I could do more and i apologies if i haven't been of help, but good luck and be safe.
2006-11-23 11:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by Paulo.GZ. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention Dack whether your curiosity is purely academic - i.e., only goes as far as 'wondering' what it might be like - or whether it manifests itself as a desire to experience sex with another man yourself. If it's just the wondering, why worry? Everyone has fantasies that they don't ever feel the need to live out, be that sex with someone of the same sex, having sex outdoors, being tied up...curiosity is natural in everyone.
If however you're feeling that you want to experience sex with a man, again it's nothing to worry about. Sexuality is such a grey area and while many people go through life only ever being attracted to the same or opposite sex, millions upon millions of others fancy both sexes to a greater or lesser degree; some go on to experiment with these desire, others keep them as fantasy, it really is your call.
One thing I would say is that if you decide to satisfy your curiosity by going with a man, give yourself some space to think about whether your marriage is as 'happy' as you think. Forgetting about the gender of who you sleep with - sexuality is so not the issue here - if you're thinking of being unfaithful it may be symptomatic of something wrong within your marriage that you need to fix first before being unfaithful.
I hope that helps - let me know if you want to talk more about it.
2006-11-24 08:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by HRW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, be happy. Personally I have tried it, I didn't like it and now I am looking for the option to sleep with a transsexual. If I don’t like that either, it means that it is my wild fantasy and curiosity that drive me. Try and see then. Just don’t worry about silly things. Just be careful with STDs because your wife should not pay for your curiosity.
2006-11-25 09:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal i too have fantasies about two men....The thing is what if you do it and like it ?Then you will want to do it all the time.Wow ,IM me on yahoo sharonp8321 we need to talk...
2006-11-23 12:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by shanky36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋