2006-11-21 20:20:35 · 5 answers · asked by Zaptice 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well failures are the stepping stones to success aren't they? When you try and fail at least you know that you tried. If not 10 years down the road you might ask "Why didn't I even try?". Can you live with the regret? And how do you know a small miracle will never happen?
2006-11-21 20:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by miss flames 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, your question is too vague, because a good answer is dependent on the situation.
I'll elaborate. Are you trying to rob a bank, and you know you can't make it? Then stop right there; the try isn't worth the consequences. I'm going to assume you're not referring to anything illegal.
Are you talking about asking someone out? In this case, trying might be worth it because the sooner you know that someone's interested in you, the better. It can either result in something positive or give you closure on the matter. It also makes you stronger as a person, because what doesn't kill you can only make you stronger.
Are you talking about accomplishing some sort of task, like going to some college or university? In this case, you're mistaken if you know you can't make it; in these types of cases you have to learn to think positive.
If it's some other issue not stated, I apologize, but it's difficult to go on something so vague.
2006-11-22 04:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by Welgar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We learn from everything we do. When we challenge ourselves to do something difficult, we are often surprised at what we know or don't know and that can encourage us to improve in some way. We also gain respect for those who can do these difficult things when we see the skill, talent, education, and patience it takes.
And now and then, we discover we CAN do what we thought we couldn't. Or at least we're moving forward. And that feels good.
Success is usually incremental, so we have to take those first baby steps. Watch a baby learn to walk. She isn't worried about winning a marathon.
2006-11-22 06:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by joanmazza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is a journey not a destination, attitudes,if everybody else is going to do it what can you do that is going to be successfully different, u have this perceived now apply yourself to making good out of bad and know that other will have to do this too.and if you fail know this is out of the question to be upset over it, change what you can and move on, confidence can't be beat-up by u over things
2006-11-22 04:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz we have something called "hope"...so thats why u even knw the answer ...asked the same question...we try coz we always hav a hope.....
2006-11-22 04:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by buddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋