I have been married to my wife for 8 months and I love her dearly but 1 night of partying with my friends left me in bed with a woman. I soon realized I got claumidia and have't told my wife yet. Me and my wife have since had sex and I am losing sleep I dont know how to break the news to her.....I am thinking of putting penicillan in her drink for a week or staging something else. My heart tells me to leave but my mind tells me to not tell her. Someone give me some good advice please....
2006-11-21 20:09:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't ever admit to anything. The best thing that you can do is accuse her of giving it to you,and then file for divorce on grounds of adultery.
2006-11-22 06:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Roy Munson 3 · 1⤊ 7⤋
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2016-12-23 04:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you place the blame on her and she hasn't cheated she'll know for sure that you are a cheat as well as a liar. I would arrange for a nice evening alone and tell her that you have something very serious to tell her. Tell her the truth and both of you go to the doctor together and get some marriage counseling. She needs to be seen right away because a lot of STD's can cause PID in females and make them extremely ill and/or sterile. If she ends up going to her doctor before you tell her and he diagnoses her with a STD she will probably react a lot worse then if you tell her yourself. It is illegal in America to give any prescription medicine to another person. It is also dangerous. What would happen if she were allergic to whatever you gave her? An allergic reaction can be fatal. I wish you luck and you need to tell her STAT!
2016-05-22 12:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead but it in her drink. Let her get an infection for the medication. Penicillin is know to cause yeast infect in woman. Let her go to the doctor to get it taken care of and the doctor tells her not only do you have a yeast infection you also have claumidia!
You made a mistake. You took it upon yourself to sleep with someone else. Just be greatful its not aids that you have brought home to your wife.
Now be a man and tell your wife the truth. If she forgives you and decides to keep you then fine. If she kicks you to the curb then to bad. You made a decision for sleep with someone else and left her no choice. Yet your still being so dang selfish and not wanting to give her any choices. Even concerning her own health.You were drunk made a mistake and your act was selfish. Your sober now so stop being self.
2006-11-21 21:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And youve only been married for 8 months. Poor girl. Pack your bags (dont forget anything cos you wont be allowed back in to get em) get as far away from her distance wise as you can, like another state, then telephone her and tell her. She can then get to the Medical clinic and hopefully get sorted before it all gets so bad it messes up her life forever (meaning she would probably be unable to get pregnant) Theres a word for someone like you but I wont use it on here.Whatever happens, even if she forgives you she will never forget. Things between you 2 will never be the same again.
2006-11-21 20:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by Daydreamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely have a moral obligation to tell her NOW so she can seek medical treatment before it gets worse. No you cannot sneak penicillin into her drink, you doorknob. If you think she might not forgive you for cheating, do you think she's going to feel better knowing you didn't tell her about the STD? Because she WILL find out, when the symptoms show up. Do the right thing for once and tell her now.
2006-11-21 20:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be honest, tell her the truth now and then go from there. Atleast she will be cured. Don't go without telling, that will be worse. I know it will definitely hurt her. Sleeping with another woman plus STD, you're in for a major argument... tell her "it was a mistake to sleep with that woman but you need to tell her the truth because you care so much for her." Even if she's mad at you, show her you want the best for her by accompanying her to the Doctor and since your the one who passed on the STD be there for her till she gets cured...Ask her to allow you to help her. Take care of her and treat her like a princess.
2006-11-21 21:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by swt_kimchi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no good advice. You screwed up. All you can do now is the right thing by telling her the truth as directly as possible, be accountable for your abhorrent behavior, and be prepared to sleep on the couch for a few months.
2006-11-21 20:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by Zloar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try Anahera' s suggestion but I think she will know you're lying. No point in spending any more time and energy worrying about how to tell her cos you're toast anyway. When you tell her, make it clear that you expect her to kick you out for that is what you deserve - try and salvage some dignity from this scurrilous situation.
2006-11-21 20:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what to tell u!! u should have thought about all this before. u would just make it worse by puttig that into her drink. and also just to get up and leave and let her find out on her own is heartbreaking. just love her and tell her about. it may end in very bad results. but its better than lieing. i wish you the best of luck.
2006-11-21 20:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her before she gets really sick. And putting that in her drink could be dangerous. If you made the mistake you need to own up and let your wife get the help she needs and not be a chicken because your scared to loose her.
2006-11-21 20:13:03 · answer #11 · answered by mommyblues78 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋