I tend to talk too much .. could this be out of inferiority complex?

Question

I am an engineering kid and not very good looking, dad says only ur intelligence is ur plus point and nothing else. people adore me..but i dont feel comfortable in any ones company. i also suffer from lots of body hair being a female.

Answer 1

My nickname used to be" Motormouth" so I can relate. The people who love you for who you are accept you with your flaws.
It's good that you desire to grow, sometimes just tell yourself to ask a lot of questions, and practice the art of being a good listener-there are books and courses on the subject.
Part of it for me is hyperactivity, that carries over into the verbal activity. Also, my mind races ahead so fast, it's hard for my mouth to keep up. And sometimes knowing that I will often forget a question will make it a real challenge to not interrupt/jump all over subject-wise.
But you know what, my closest friends kind of like that trait, like you, with the high IQ, it tends to be somewhat humanizing. Makes you count your blessings to have true Friends. Hope this encourages you, certainly you are not alone in this. Blessings on you =)

Answer 2

I relate just about everything to astrology, so I would wonder what and where your communication sign is. Air&Fire signs seem to be a lot more verbal than other signs. Your Sun sign is not the same as your communication sign, ruled by Mercury btw.
Maybe in talking so much you are trying to somehow prove you are worth listening to, or have a need to control the conversation even. People pay more attention to whoever is talking usually though, so maybe you just want more attention.
Your dad needs to be ALOT more complimenting towards you-jeeeez! Besides, beauty is in the eye of the beholder AND looks don't last forever! Have you ever seen a couple where you thought one of them was butt-ugly and the other was too good looking for them? well....it happens all the time.
One of my girlfriend's, she's an alaskan native and she also has a lot of body hair-I mean, she has a slight mustache shadow which she shaves, says when she shaves her legs that she's shaving the 'forest' lol...but she's really pretty and now married to a great guy...I've read, heard that's because of your body making too much testosterone....but, could just be hereditary as well. I wouldn't worry too much about the body hair, just shave it off if it bugs you!
No worries now ya hear??~

Answer 3

People adore you as they see the qualities you express. Look away from the body to find your true self, and then you will feel comfortable because you will be holding onto the truth in your thought rather than a lie. You will also find that the talking too much isn't a problem, because you will have a new sense of peace within. There is much more to life than material visions.

Answer 4

I dont know why some people talk too much, but its OK for me as long as they have time to listen as well. Looks can be improved upon, look after yourself through diet and exercise, use beauty products, get a nice hair style etc. Most importantly, view yourself as attractive, because people see this aswell. Iam sure you have many plus points, not just intelligence, think about this and write them down, you may surprise yourself. If you start to feel comfortable with yourself, you will feel comfortable with other people.

Answer 5

U should have confidence in urself. U r an aspiring engineer and that makes u above average. All u need to do is to boost ur confidence and look the world straight in the eyes. and about talking, it's a virtue in today's world (trust me on that). if u can't talk u can't communicate. Talking too much doesn't show inferiority complex rather u would've been quiet if u felt inferior......

Answer 6

Hey dear dont be upset if u are intelligent u can rule the world . People adore u means u got to be special Take life in its positive aspects as regards to body hair u got a lot of remedies try them or consult a dermatologist or cosmetologist . But keep on fighting. Life is wonderful. Enjoy.

Answer 7

So what if you talk too much? At least you know how to communicate which other people problem to themselves. Don't let your physical features stop you from letting yourself shine. Physicals doesn't matter if you don't have the confidence. It's okay to be conscious about yourself 'cause everybody has it. Just remember to stay confident and be a good person as you are. And always remember that sometimes when people talk too much, they tend to ignore what they are saying;so as long as you're not hurting anyone, then you don't have to worry about anything. Just enjoy life.

Answer 8

Are you a nervous talker too? I know what could help that... just go to Toastmasters and learn how to publicly speak and talk to others.

As to the body hair... are you joking? If you have a lot... guess what? Go to the drug store and get a few key items... I have had waxing in the past and loved getting it done. No one cares, just ask for facial waxing including eyebrows, full leg and get a basic bikini to start out.

Nervous talking kills me... my mom does it and I do it... and I have had to learn to put a damper on it.

Answer 9

if you talk too much its not out of inferiority complex...you are comfortable in expressing your views..you are an engineering student so you should be confident , if you don't feel comfortable in anyone's company you should try to do things that you like.. try to understnaf yourself and see yourself thru someone else's eyes...you will see that most people will think of you in more positive manner than you think....

Answer 10

try ducttape ........ the silicone based are better.
u can stick it on ur mouth to prevent talking, use it to peel excess hair from ur body, stick a piece with a message on ur head, people will look at it and not know how good or bad u may look and it will also be a new fashion statement.