In highschool I dated this guy and we really did like each other alot. Well I was talking to a friend back home and found out that he has moved into his own apartment and that he is living with someone new. I really miss him but dont want to split up their relationship. What do you think?
2006-11-21 19:39:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just thought I would add the fact that I am in a relationship (happily). I just havent seen him in a while. I have no intention of trying to split up their relationship.
2006-11-21 23:34:11 · update #1
Imagine if YOU were living with him and an old flame popped by to say hello.
How would that feel?
2006-11-21 20:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hate to be semi rude... don't be a drama queen. you dated and at very least should be good or great friends even if it didn't work out.1- do ( in this ? mot even touched on) you know that they are hot in heavy per his mouth-as rumors are only1% correct, or living as roomies to save $, or were checking out if the mojo was there? too many unknowns...2- what makes you Gods gift, as if you merely said hi that he would burn his roomies stuff and come running to you3- if all the impossible scenarios come true, it is HIS CHOICE as to who he wishes to be with.4- but being a romantic in both love as well as friendship (a type of love), by reestablishing a contact is a win-win situation. even if you &/or him are not mature enough yet one day it will come full circle. and you will be the better stud (see below, important !!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-22 06:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing I always tell people in these situations . . . if the person is in a relationship and happily so- leave it be. Just leave it, and better spend your time forgetting those who aren't single, and looking for ones who are!
2006-11-22 04:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Glad you put the 2nd part. It is okay to contact him, but you want to make sure that your partner is okay with it first, and then be clear if you hook up with your old friend, that his partner knows the nature of your previous relationship.
2006-11-22 08:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i think id go for it, just to see how he is doing and to see if he has changed. Curiousity always gets the better of me!!!
2006-11-22 09:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by cartoonhero55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, you should NOT contact him. Besides, he's taken. Instead, move on. Find someone available.
2006-11-22 03:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Obvious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drop a christmas card in the mail,
with your return address on it,
then see what happens.
2006-11-22 04:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by john john 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
move on...he's in a relationship ...do you really want to cause him grief?..let well enough alone...he's made his choices.
2006-11-22 04:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever is in your heart.
Fate is fate, if it's meant to be, it'll happen, you'll know when.
2006-11-22 03:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by scorpio_edwin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋