I have a boyfriend i love him very much now he is my but my love has no end we cant do marry becos of him i dont talk with my family. He is very nice guy and he loves me too. i always think abt him becos of this my mind become sick . pls suggest why i feel alone when there is frnd and love are exist in my life. I dont want to leave my boyfrnd
2006-11-21 19:33:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have definately have felt that way. i don't think that it really has anyting to do with, if you have someone or not. Thats why i believe alot of relationships do not work out because of the misconception of just having someone else there brings people to feel that they shouldn't feel alone and in return i think can even feel more alone for the lack of understanding that people have for one another. If you dont know the answer then someone sure doesn't. It seems like you need to take time to yourself. I know i get really short temperd especially when i do have someone and i even feel more alone because that person does not fill that void but i learnd that only i can do that and only then can find happiness with someone else.
2006-11-21 19:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by angel d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are ungrateful for the gift of love that your boyfriend gives to him. Without him you surely would be truly lonely. Right now you are just confused and need help. Talk to your boyfriend about this, find hobbies and things you can do together, maybe you do not do enough together and you feel lonely because of that? If you don't have a job, find one and it will give you something to do and look after. Also, why does your mind become "sick" when you think of someone you love? That should not be so, it should be healthy with the thoughts of a loved one and fresh. Think about what you truly feel.
2006-11-21 19:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to everyone at some point of time. U have to have patience and u can't cut off with ur family b'coz of ur boyfriend. He is still a third person and u might need ur family if god forbid this boy leaves u tomorrow. Stop trying to possess the relationship and do something constructive to take ur mind off the guy. Thinking of him all day long is not going to help ur relations but it may destroy ur peace of mind as it is doing now! come out of filmi love story type of romance and value ur family and urself as much as u value him!
2006-11-21 19:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by kanchi77_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 09:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by gaffke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why don't you talk to your family because of that guy.See,family comes first.I myself was in a similar situation with my sister because she never liked my ex girlfriend.But later wen me & my gal separated my sis helped me a lot.So 1st of all break d ice between u & ur family.
Secondly u r feeling alone just because u r too consious about ur relationship wid dat guy dat its d only thing dat u have in ur mind.dont do dat.get mixed wid other people and stop feeling so insecured if dat guy loves u so much ( as u say)...
all the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-21 19:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by ajinkya naik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people enjoy lonlyness in their style. Try to enjoy whatever happening. Try to find out good things of anything around you and you will find you are not lonly-- You are sharing life with others around you
2006-11-21 20:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by susanta b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are suffering from lack of love by your parents/relatives. You are searching of love. When it is available, everything in the world will be found positive.
2006-11-22 03:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by naari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all in the mind. Change your perception and your attitude will change. It is just a frame of mind. Stop thinking that way. Only you yourself can correct that. No one else can. Be positive and your attitude will change.
2006-11-22 02:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm Down Lady.. Do relaxing excercises.. Pranayams and find ways to grow in life..find a job if not already having ..find something that you enjoy doing...
B+
2006-11-21 19:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
evey person goes thru what you are going...you are probably in the rebellious stage thru which all of us go thru..most individuals in this stage go against ftheir family and they usually come by it...but you will have to understand that your boyfriend is not your life..your family is going to keep you close no matter wht so you will have to enjoy their company as well.
2006-11-21 20:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by knock-a-brain-apart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋