about 3weeks ago my gf of 3years broke up with me. she said are relatioship had been failing for a couple of months, i couldn't get off on our anniversary or her bday and that when things hit the fan.I did not do that on purpose, I really love her and was planning on proposing to her on christmas this year.anyways she said she made up her mind and that she is being a big girl about it, meaning shes not going to come crying back.we still talk every other day and i have a couple of things of hers, but she has yet to come over a pick them up.just last saturday i went to a party and i told her that i was going and she called me up a half hour into it.Asking me to pick her up so panyhose from dress barn, i did not get the call untill i checked my vmail the next day. She called about two hours later and said don't worry about it they stoped selling the ones i wanted.Btw she got into a bad car accident and has no transportation yet, but her brother takes her out to do her shopping.help
2006-11-21 19:28:25 · 11 answers · asked by j3ffw 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I work weekend nights and i just had a talk with my boss, and he is going to pull me off night to try and salvage the relationship.I told her that i am getting off nights and she asked when but i could not give her a date, does that mean anything. I am willing to change somethings for her so we can be happy.I just miss her and want another chance.
2006-11-21 19:32:04 · update #1
thing is we were friends before we started dating, ever since i went on nightshift things went alittle downhill.i think iam going to stop calling her for a couple of days and see what happens.i have gone over her house many of times and she came out and we sat and talked for awhile, i even sent flowers to her and dropped off somethings to her, which she made time to come out and see me.maybe iam hoping things will change when the truth is staring right at me....why does this have to hurt sooo bad.why could'nt i just take those days off why why.
2006-11-21 20:13:12 · update #2
Are you willing to change your life for her? Work is a responsibility and its pretty selfish of her to be mad because you couldnt get off. Heck...celebration can be on another day...where is the maturity here. Sounds like she wants it her way and no other. Wonder how she would like it if you didnt work. pffft...she would hate that too cause then you wouldnt be able to take her out. Hmmm...what would make her happy or is that even possible. Stand up and dont be pushed around. Quit chasing her. Let her learn a lesson and come back to you when she has grown up.
2006-11-21 19:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have point blank told her that look I am sorry I didn't take those days off. It's not that I didn't want to it's that I have been working all those hours to get you an engagement ring for x-mas. When I get married to someone I want to be able to make sure I can afford to give her a better life. The way to do it is by saving and putting money away now.
I hope with you next boyfriend you take that into consideration. He might celebrate you special days. Just make sure when you get married he has a great roof over your head. If not just remember you could have.
Put it out there. Make her feel like a mouse. You know when you state it like that it will make her feel like a dweb and make her think.
If she has no reaction then accept its over. AS had as that is. Just don't keep letting her jerk your chain. She snaps you jump. Honey your not married yet. Your jumping 6 feet now. You would be jumping 12 feet.
2006-11-21 21:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her to leave her house, then break in and find out where she`s hiding your testicles. If shes wearing them as a necklass charm then you have big problems. She broke up with you and you`re telling her your every move? Dude, she`s probably seeing someone else. Best thing to do is not call her and move on. If she wants to get back together after that then dont let her have so much power!
2006-11-21 19:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by fisherking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still talking pretty much everyday, then this relationship still has a good chance. She was obviously wanting to take a break, instead of break-up. Tell her you can't go on like this. Tell her if she really doesn't want to come back to you then just not call anymore. She will definitely chirp a different tune, then if she wants to get back together with you that is. If she doesn't then go along your way.
2006-11-21 19:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,there is no way of getting her back.She is so disappointed. You firstly disappointed on your anniversary and secondly on her birthday.Okay you can forget your anniversary not her birthday,you surely don't understand what her birthday means to her.A special day to her life.Oh please,don't even try to get her back because you are going to disappoint her more and more.
2006-11-21 19:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! a man that remembers anniversaries? birthdays? that's amazing. I wouldn't worry about that x of yours. It sounds like she still wants you to do things for her, but not do anything for you in return. You sound like a nice guy, I hope things work out the best for YOU.
2006-11-21 19:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by manywarhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK that woman . YOU took her 4 granted. SO its up to you to get her back. TELL you a secret it dont get any better after marriage. BETTER be careful looks like she will have an affair on you . SO ID move on unless you plan on meeting her needs.
2006-11-21 19:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
make sure that her intentions of wanting to see you are genuine and not going to screw you up sounds like there may have been another guy on the side before hand i think you need to move on
2006-11-21 19:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be cool.you know it is better that you calm yourself and think about your relationship with your g/f.if your love is real then move on and do the best way.you know what the best thing for her is.do it and dont be worry.
2006-11-21 19:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by Elham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to say this but she ahs made up her mind and she has gone sorry
mate you r to good for her she is using you to do all of her running around dont fall for it mate
neck up be strong and you will get their
2006-11-21 19:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by katie r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋