my girlfriend is 4 months pregnant. she swears it's mine, even tho i know she was still seeing her ex at that time, but swears they weren't having sex. She won't go to the doctor b/c she can't afford it. Her insurance will pay, but she's dragging her feet with the paper work. I've offered to help with the bills, but she politely refuses, says she'll get it done asap, but doesn't. I think she's afraid to go b/c she doubts it's my baby & we'll learn the true conception date, which may have been before we started having sex, when she was still w/ her ex, whom she secretly continued to see for awhile after we got together. Am I being paranoid? How early can a pat test be done? How soon after a period can you get pregnant?
2006-11-21 18:56:32 · 8 answers · asked by dick 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you can get pregnant the very day of your period and the exact very last day of it,she might be putting it off its a scary thing knowing theres a baby on the way,it might be a paternity thing but it might not be,i didnt go to the doctors untill i was six months because i had so many things going on in my head about what if something is wrong and ect,a paternity test can be done the day the baby is born,but when she gets her first ultrasound it gives exactly how far pregnant she is in weeks which will tell you if you were with her or not,if she was cheating on you then dont stay with her feeling you have an obligation to her because she is pregnant let her ex deal with it but if this baby is yours then seriously think about your relationship with this girl after she has the baby because sounds like she still wants her ex
2006-11-21 19:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman can get pregnant even during her period. If she's having a cycle, and ovulating, she can get pregnant at any time.
As for the paternity test, I think the baby actually has to be born first. I cannot see them taking any kind of sample from a fetus. I could be wrong though.
If she doesn't want her ex to be the dad, are you going to step up?? That may in fact be why she doesn't want to go, because the baby will have a father she doesn't want, or no father at all.
Good luck!
2006-11-21 19:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can get pregnant on your period. However I don't know if that baby is yours, I am very sceptical. A paternity test can be done at the hospital after birth, do not allow her to put your name on the birth certificate until you know for sure. Are you sure she is pregnant, is she showing? Have you felt the baby move, this is what I am thinking!
2006-11-21 19:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can do a paternity test through amniocentesis, but this Carry's alot of risks and is usually not done unless necessary. I would wait until the baby is born. And she needs to go to the doctor. She may be putting her life at risk also by neglecting to do so.
2006-11-22 01:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by ajmj2901 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, Do you need any more proof that it is not your kid. It is all right in front of you. Dump the chick and get out, before you get attached to a kid. Then its all bad. even if you have the test after its born and its not yours, you can still be responsible. This girlfriend is not honest and by not seeing the doctor she is putting the fetus in danger.
If she comes at you for child support then she must get the test beforew you pay.
2006-11-21 19:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You needless to say SUCK at math. additionally, if that's remotely genuine, it ain't your sperm, it became into yet another guy's d*ck in her makin her happy for a night 3 months in the past. pass on maury or jerry and discover out who the toddler daddy!! xD
2016-10-04 05:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the baby isn't yours. the writing is on the wall.
2006-11-22 07:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by JayneDoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she has something to hide or she doesn't. Maybe she just doesn't like doctors. Some people are that way.
2006-11-21 19:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋