Why am I such a loser?

Question

I can't (cross that out) WON'T get up in the morning. I procrastinate like crazy. I go to an online chat room.... and ppl refuse to talk to me. (No, i do not say stuff like this all the time) I dream of being succesfull and take no steps to become such. Tear me up. How do I change?

Answer 1

you are a loser because you think your a loser but the truth is probly no insult intended, is you live such a sheltered safe wealthy life dont say your not wealthy because if you are poor youd have no home,job clothing.COMPUTER ect..you are blinded by your own selfpitty and doubt created by guilt and bordom. if and i say if you want to not be or even think your a loser quit lieing to yourself go out find real losers like veterans with no arms,or legs that need help being fed ect or just a visitor some have been in there since nam without a visitor and they think they are losers to. or become a volunteer for elderly shutins they think nobody loves them also. the point is they or you arnt losers,i think it would be a healing expereance for both of you,so .get up off your *** look in the miorror slap yourself in the face go out in the world and help someone who has a legitamate reason to feal like a loser. but if you dont want to change and have all the emotional wealth of a turd keep doin what your doin, its totaly up to you,you have a perfect rite to do what you want it a fee country a little while yet.but please dont suffer us with this tripe now that you know your only a LOSER if you want to be...

Answer 2

First, don't be dejected and isolate yourself from the community. Take me for example, i have far lots of dreams and long-term plans. I had been successful in the past and really felt that it was a mere small effort i had to put into. But now im on a downslope, and finding it hard to achieve what i wanted. Fret not, everyone encounters this kind of problem once or twice in their lives. And as long as you trust, there are people out there struggling on their first step to realising their dreams just like you.

Sleeping habits can be changed. If you often sleep late into the night of cos you cant wake in the morning! Try for once sleep early and wake up early, and go for a walk, absorb the fresh air before the world pollutes the streets with harmful gases in the afternoon. You will feel a difference. I did.

If there are certain things that you find yourself always procrastinating, split them up into actions. e.g. Instead of telling yourself how much homework you have, tell yourself, today's mission is to sit infront of your table and flip open a book. Don't tag ANY sense of purpose to these simple actions. If you fail, so be it. Then try a few math questions for a start. They can help you concentrate. If you find yourself carrying on, have yourself to thank.

Hope this helps=)

Answer 3

You are not a loser. You just need to kick some bad habits. If you set a certain time of day aside for work each day, then you will get into the habit of doing it early every day. This will allow you to get more sleep and get out of bed in the morning. The people in the online chat room you speak of are probably just rude. If you work hard, you will be successful.

Answer 4

Dear Mithrandir,please don't ever put yourself down like that. If you keep thinking or yourself as a loser,you'll eventually become one. All of us have times where we don't get out of bed,or we procrastinate until the last minute, or find that even your closest amigos refuse to speak to you. Also,multiple people use Internet chat rooms.Point is, All of us can get loserish at times...and who can blame us? Were only human. If you believe you've sunk that low,though... just remember that it's never too late to change your ways.Optimism is key. I,myself experienced depression for a short amount of time,but one day,I found myself surrounded by beautiful things and people that I never even realized where there before.Once you've designated yourself as a great person in your brain,you'll find that your sculpting yourself almost effortlessly into one. P.S. You don't need medication for depression.You are completely capable to heal yourself.Mind over matter.

And to the other people answering,no answering answers similar to mine.Thats cheating.That's right,I see you. :)

Answer 5

To be actually enthused one would have to understand the meaning of life and our purpose here. This place is called Maya or Illusion. We are all covered by different veils of illusion. The quickest and easiest way to remove these veils is to chant the Maha Mantra or the Great mantra for deliverance.
Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare Hare Rama Hare Rama Rama Rama Hare Hare. Say each syllable loud enough to hear and say the whole mantra 108 times. Contact me for complete details.
You are not a loser just become a fighter of illusion and you will win over this illusory energy.

Answer 6

People don't talk to me in the chat rooms. I usually watch the chat and then jump in when the time is right. Sometimes I just talk to myself...lol...and others will eventually answer...there are tons of people out there feeling the same way. Just jump in. Don't expect conversation, just do it...

As for succeeding...I used to be the same way. Procrastinated...didn't have much of a life. I got to the same point your at and someone told me to write my goals down on paper.

I usually meet all those goals when I can see where I want to go. Figure out what you want to do and just do it.

Best wishes.

Answer 7

You're not a loser, but I was in the same boat. You are depressed and you would be surprised at what some therapy amd medication can do for your spirit. Make an appt. Then put on your favorite song, dance, and go out with friends and have some fun.

Answer 8

well the only way to change is from the bottom up, meaning you first have to change the way you think about yourself and you have to believe that you can do things on time as well as accomplish them on time. try making a schedule that goes every 30 mins. and fill it out for a whole day and see how much free time you have.. its called a fixed commitment schedule. it helped me a lot, secondly make a to do list with a priorities and b priorities. this helps too.

Answer 9

Procastination only limits your potential as a human being......and is viewed as rude and inconsiderate but you already know that huh? I won't tear you up cause you are expecting that so ....I won't take part in your wanting to control a situation.....Work on this problem or you will regret this later in life when you become lonely and unemployed because you , "won't get up on time to be at your workplace "
PEACE

Answer 10

You urgently need to get to know God, your Creator through His Son, Jesus Christ, for only in Him wil lyou find the solution to your answer. Your view of yourself will then change as you will discover that you are indeed a unique and special person who has been blessed with special skills to make a worthwhile and worthy contribution to society. You will no longer just have to dream, but will find that He has deposited within you the resources to fulfill those dreams! He will enable you by grace to overcome your weaknesses and to improve your strong points.
He will open your mind to understand and grasp life. He will give you the Reason to exist, as He is the sole Reason for us being here. This is not pie in the sky, it is a way of life - God's way of life, the only way of life that is satisfying and meaningful.
go on now, speak to your God - I challenge you to do it!