If you piss of a scorpio accidentally, what is the best way to get back on their good side? I know they tend to hold grudges, but I'm hoping that you all can give me some pointers as to how to get around that. Thanks.
2006-11-21 15:57:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
I tried to explain that it was a misunderstanding, but they didn't believe me :(
2006-11-21 16:10:00 · update #1
It's my boyfriend, if that makes a difference.
2006-11-22 04:13:10 · update #2
only one thing for a scorpio, seduction! And work it, so he cant resist you girl!
2006-11-22 05:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by nicoleware623 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pissed off accidentally?
I guess I have had "friends", do that.
They fare'd okay too, considering...
Someone for example pissed me off by accusing me of doing something I did not.
I feel like I am a VERY HONEST person...
Well I had the only vehicle, and the group, two or thee of like six, were AGAINST ME.
It was wet and rainy, and I would say, I ACCIDENTLY put all of our lives in danger driving home on MOUNTAINOUS roads at fairly extreme speeds.
I was young and stupid then.
But my mind seems to have its own personality sometimes and if the thoughts came to pass, that I get in my head at the people who have,"hurt", or upset me...I would have been locked up for life long ago...
Thank God for reasoning.
Anyway, just Give him some space to cool out.
I think SCORPIOS tend to do a lot of thinking and reasoning.
Even if I feel like I am, RIGHT for being cruel, or justified...because the other party is badmouthing, rude ,or vindictive somehow...I still tend to feel VERY GUILTY for being an A*SHOLE.
And I try and give everyone the benefit of the doubt.
It is no lie though, somehow we SCORPIOS can PENETRATE your very SOUL...and if you lie to us, we know it.
when someone lies to me it is the same as when I thought as a child, that I COULD LIE...my face turn red and my neck too and I just know that the person is not telling the truth.
Be truthful and Honest with him.
try and be the first to APOLOGIZE, and bring him some good food, a scorpio can not resist a good feast...
otherwise, be like...well fine, whatever...well that may just piss him off more, but then the damage may allready be done...so goodluck.
DJ
October 28th, 1971
2006-11-22 02:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by gemseeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Scorpio,
since we love psychology, and the dark side of life, we tend to be suspicious by nature, we don't hold grudges unless we feel that you are not telling the truth and could hurt us again, what we need more than anything, is HONESTY, please, show us sincerity, if you don't we will FEEL your deceitfullness.We have a gift
of intuition, and if your honest, we will love you forever.
Go to them and tell them your truely sorry, and then give several honest answers why, from the heart
2006-11-21 16:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by 9888khgd6 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Being a scorpio.. I will let you know
Honesty is your best communication
scorpios hate to be analyzed.. or criticisized but if you come out and admit you were wrong about what you said or did
forgiveness will not be hard to come by..
especially because all scorpios are very sensitive on the inside, and are very perceptive of how others feel or react
so be as genuine as possible, this person will detect it without even realizing it conciously.
2006-11-21 16:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by PenetratingGaze 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Leave them alone and move on with your life. If they want to spend more time around you, they will. One thing Scorpios thrive on is torturing somebody they feel has slighted them by acting as if they couldn't care less whether the person lived or died, while the other person goes through hell!
Just let the anger cool and don't worry yourself; unless it was a major issue or a serious infraction, they aren't going to try and hurt you.
2006-11-21 20:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're not stupid. We're just stubborn. It's simple. If you're truly sorry, then apologize with the utmost sincerity. If you're not then you're basically screwed. Sorry but Scorpios will not forgive you if you're not truly sorry. And don't try to act like nothing happened. Bad, bad move. They'll never forget. Plus, we're sensitive. If he goes off on his own, let him go until he's ready to come back. If he sticks around, He's probably expecting an apology. But only give it to him if you mean it. That's really what it boils down to. Be honest and sincere. Otherwise... He's never going to let it go.
2006-11-22 10:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I read all the answers and I was most impressed with my fellow Scorpios. They gave excellent advice and explained how to deal with us when we have been hurt and are angry as a result.
What can I add? I will only say as a general rule, if someone is really and truly sorry, I feel compelled to forgive him and be friends again. I feel quite moved that someone wants so badly to be friends again so how can I turn that person away. Also, to be honest, don't I want to be forgiven if I also hurt someone? So as the Bible says do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
2006-11-22 02:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by happy inside 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm a Scorpio and quite a number of alternative what has been pronounced is real. i'm very laid back and don't get mad very many times. i additionally hate exhibiting my thoughts. if i'm getting mad and somebody and tell them off or cry in public i'm getting so mad at myself. even human beings i'm close to to (possibly fairly while i'm close to to somebody) i hate exhibiting sturdy thoughts. i'm alternately very open approximately some issues and extremely secretively approximately different issues, it extremely is only stupid.
2016-11-26 00:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by horabik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first it depends on how close your relationship is with the scorpio. but generally just leave him alone for a while, and then afterwards try to call him or just be natural and act like nothing big happened. IF YOU HOLD THE GRUDGE, THEN HE WILL CERTAINLY REMEMBER AS WELL! if he act aloof and resentful, apologize for what happened SINCERELY but with DIGNITY. good luck with it, i hope i answered your question:)
2006-11-21 20:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by lorivs89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with c.l. who
I myself am a scorpio..and yes I do hold grudges.. but if that person will explain what all happened most of the time all is fine..
2006-11-21 16:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by Tracy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a scorpio, just let the person calm down and avoid conversation with them. Then after some time, if you see them tell them a few jokes and they'll laugh and forgive you. I know it sounds wierd but it works with me for some reason.
2006-11-21 16:58:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋