We all have experienced losing someone we deeply love. The grief is unspeakable, making our lives up and down. But, what will you do if you lose someone you really love? Please, cheer me up?
2006-11-21 15:57:21 · 10 answers · asked by Fique 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know what it is like to loose someone you really love. i resently lost a loved one. I can still feel her though, threw my memories and feelings about her. I sometimes just sit and think about her and it cheers me up knowing that she lived a good life. I am also cheered up because i know i will see her again. I am a member of the Chuch of Jesus Christ of Later Day Saints and I know that i will be able to see all my loved ones that have dies again some day.
2006-11-21 16:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by avatar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Lost my brother and My dad within 6 months of one another nearly 3 years ago..... And my life has been up side down ever since.... but I realized alot of things through the loss of my Dad & Brother. We should NEVER take a moment of our lives for granted, we should fullfill our dreams, we should always try to love one another as if it were the last time we would see one another, and we should laugh and be happy that we are blessed to be here another day to maybe make a difference in someone's life....
2006-11-21 16:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by wva_butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about you losing a loved one. Think of all the great things they accomplished in their life. Right a poem or talk to someone. Think of all the good things and that this person isnt in pain. God Bless! Also find some upbeat music to listen to.
2006-11-21 16:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if youre speaking of death, the standard lines suck. "im sorry for your loss--my sympathies to you--they are in a better place" all crap. don't ever let anyone convince you that you need "closure".
my father died when i was 17, 25 years ago and my wife wants me to get closure. told me this during marriage counselling. I told her to get f-ed. she hates her dad and doesn't even begin to realize the loss i experience to this day when i cant show my kids their grandpa who was the funniest guy i ever knew. i cant ask him for advice or help or just go have a cup of coffee. i dont want to "close" those memories or his spirit which i feel everyday. I talk to him, i still ask him stuff. might make me a looney bird, but i will never put "closure" to it.
Remember the good times, the good laughs the good feelings. the bad stuff fades like it never happened. Keep the spirit of that person alive in your own way and never put closure to it.
2006-11-21 16:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That person is with you now, and will always be in your heart. I lost my grandfather and a very young cousin. BELIEVE me when I tell you this....he/she is with you. I have seen evidence of this; not to sound freaky, or anything. ;.) Try talking to him/her, and read a book called, "Illuminata" by Marianne Williamson....'lots of good prayers for those who have passed on, as well as for those who suffer from the grief in losing a loved one. George Anderson is a medium/author who has written about what happens to us after our life on earth. 'Very reassuring.
2006-11-21 16:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by tatesgr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a process to losing someone...Are you talking about death though? Or breaking up? Either way, it's all about time. You have to know that it will eventually be ok. Whatever happens to us is for a reason. It will either break us or make us. You have to be strong.
2006-11-21 16:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Roxy1316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you feel like sreaming , SCREAM for all you are worth , when you feel angry , shout , let it out, and cry till your hearts content, let any emotion you feel out dont hold anything in, i think you wil find you feel more angry than anything, at first, dont feel bad about that it is normal , let it out, holler , scream, beat on a pillow anything just dont hold ANY EMOTION IN, the sooner you deal with any of it the better, i lost my mother two yrs ago and stil have hard days , she raised me and three brother all on her own , no help, and she was disabled, i am soooo proud of her , so think of the good and scream and shout out the rest, lots of prayers and well wishes,,,,,, and sorry for your loss
2006-11-21 16:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by sabrina d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry as you feel to cry, talk to someone, even on here, you'll feel better.
"Sadness when is shared with two persons, will remain a half".
And time, time will help you feel better ...
2006-11-21 16:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll think about where they are going(heaven), and think about how better it's for them up there, than down here
2006-11-21 16:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mourn
2006-11-21 15:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by gogogo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋