I am really upset about this and I feel ugly and inadequate. I'm afraid it will always be like this.
2006-11-21 15:17:59 · 31 answers · asked by jelliclecatharsis 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm a girl. Bisexual.
2006-11-21 15:21:44 · update #1
to the winner who decided to come and display their ignorance...how did you know you were straight before you kissed? I assume you did...
2006-11-21 15:44:21 · update #2
Get over this!!
You're better than to worry about being kissed. So you're 22 and never been kissed. SO? How does that make you less of a person?
The more you focus on getting a kiss, the more desperate you are going to seem to everyone. You know those friends who always whine about something? Do you know how annoying that is? If you want to chase off a guy FAST, become desperate.
Love life! LIVE life! Don't be so concentrated on what you haven't done. Go skydiving, go on a cruise, LIVE! The more you get out, the more people you're going to meet.
2006-11-21 15:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you really know your bi-sexual if you've never kissed..... Assuming you would kiss before any other sexual activity... Anyways.... some people say wait for a first kiss... but if you want a kiss so bad then just go to the bar...... Ure 22..... no matter what you look like.... you will get some you know what from a bar.... If ure not really 22..... then go to the nearest video game store.... There are 22 year old guys in there that are scared to ask the same question.
2006-11-21 23:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by johny b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20 almost 21 and i have never been kissed. I don't think of myself as being ugly or inadequate. I just don't wanna kiss just anyone I'm waiting for the right person as pathetic as it may sound its true. If i have to wait until I'm 50 than i shall. Kisses shouldn't be tossed around, I believe that your first kiss or any kiss should have meaning. Be patient
2006-11-21 23:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by Janie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will happen in no time, no need to rush the issue. You don't want to waste your first kiss on just any random person. It's not because you're ugly or inadequate it's because you're not easy and you're smart for waiting for the right person. Good luck.
2006-11-21 23:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, um. You should be more worried about boosting your self esteem then being kissed. The intimate things will come in time. Try focusing on things that will help you to feel better about yourself, the rest will follow. Confidence, is attractive. But you have to work on how you feel about yourself.
2006-11-21 23:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you have never been kisses. do you mean kissed with everything or just kissed. if you want to just kiss someone and not wait for anyone then go out to a club wear something that shows off your best parts (if its your hair, face butt, boobs etc) and just walk up to a guy/girl and start talking to them if they are interested then they will keep talkin to you if not they will walk away. but i think you have gone this long without it keep waiting as there is someone out there that you are going to fall in love with and i think you should wait for them seem that your 22 just wait. don't worry to much about it as it will happen there is someone out there for everyone. I'm not sure if you are male or female but have confidence in yourself and it will happen. my partner didn't get his first Real kiss till he met me and he was 19. so don't worry it will happen.
2006-11-21 23:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Tori F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let yourself down. The right person just didnt come yet, dont turn materialistic or something just be who you are, act the way you do, be open and free and when the right man or woman finds you, you wil experience. Dont just go kisss because you havent yet, be patient, wait, the right person will come along.
2006-11-21 23:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by Al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just be yourself. You will find the right one eventually. I was like you. I had not even had a girlfriend until I was 21 years old. Dont try too hard to impress the other sex.
2006-11-21 23:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by bdgoen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have loads of mates that have been, shall we say carefull about to whom they show their amourous advances.They are all about 23 so dont worry! its more normal than you think. I must say iam not one of them! But hey each to their own. You should do what is right for you and to hell with what others think.
if it is a case of nerves then try meditation or relaxation techneques. then just go forth and give it a go... try saying hi before you jump down their throat. but dont stress!!!
2006-11-21 23:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by charlotte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to go out try going to a bar or karaoke not clubs. Since it will be a smaller crowd of people you have a chance to get intimate with people.
2006-11-21 23:26:02 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. Cancer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋