i realy need some advice?

Question

my friend likes the same kid i like. that makes me realy mad
becuz she just started liking him yesrurday.and i liked him since i
was in first grade.can any one help me.

Answer 1

All's fair in love and war. You can't blame your friend for liking this guy, and you certainly can't mark him off as your territory. But if your friend is really dedicated to you, she'll try to lay off on hey own-- but it's not fair for you to expect that of her. The human mind is a complicated thing-- it's hard to control who you like and don't like.

Answer 2

I understand that you are upset that this individual that you call your "friend" is crossing the line in friendship, however have you attempted to tell this crush of yours that you indeed have a crush on them? If you haven't said anything or even attempted to do so, then it's pretty much free range territory. If you have made an attempt and this person has turned you down, move on. If you have made an attempt and are trying to establish something with this person and this person likes you too, then that's a serious friend issue and I would suggest forget about them and find a better friend.

Answer 3

First thing you need to ask yourself: Does she know you like him? or have you been keeping this a secret? Do you trust her and her you? If you don't trust her, even a little bit, then you feel something that is just not right. If she doesn't trust you, that is telling you something.

You both like the same boy. Big deal. The hard part is why you like him. Remember we can't help who we are attracted to. Your friend could have just begun to like him because of various good reasons; you talk about him too much, she was already friends with him, he did something she admired

But the only thing that could get this resolved is to ASK her about it. She'll tell you what she thinks. If she truly likes him, then let her. but remind her you saw him first and that gives you an advantage.

Now one thing you should not do is ask him who he likes best. Because frankly guys are sensitive. Being the one to make him choose, is too pathetic. How can he choose? If you do make him choose and both of you keep pressuring, he'll crack and ignore both of you. You need to leave him out of this because one he could not like either one of you and things will only get complicated.

You like this guy alot? Well, you need to crawl through glass on your hands and knees to get him. Tell him how you feel. If he doesn't like you, he'll tell you.

Answer 4

Here is the best advice you will ever get:
read a book and study then go to medical school then
you can marry the hottest girl around and live ib th ebiggest house and have the nicest car and people will respect you ,,,,,,and you can see the whole world and travel.........So Work hard now and then you can worry about girls and stuff later......That is the advice somone once told me....I listened to most of it except the medical school part........

Answer 5

ur so cute! ha!ha! I wish my problems were just that simple. Ur friend is not a friend to do that 2u. Just ask himwhi he likes of the 2 (if either) (and to the dude cg who answered this question-how old ru? I think u can tell this is a young girl asking this question u shouldn't give her a dating site.)

Answer 6

well then she is not a friend cause if she new how u felt for this guy that doesnt give her the right to like him too i think that is really messed up if i were u i would avoid her friendship cause all she is going to do is going to bring very painful things in your life avoid this by not being her friend

Answer 7

If she was really your friend she would understand tell her how you feel but in a nice way. She should understand and anyway i am sure he likes you better than her!

Answer 8

Ask the kid who he likes.

Answer 9

just have 2 ask him who he likes better u or ur friend

Answer 10

well,maybe you should tell your friend how you feel about this kid and how you feel about her/him. sometime you should ask your friend if she/he really likes this guy/girl. our does he/she just want a boyfriend/girlfriend.